How to cope with someone hurting you?

[grapefruit04]

I've read a few stories on here, and I am wondering how do you cope with someone who hurts you in your life but because of circumstances you can't leave/stop seeing them? I am having trouble with that in my life. I just want to focus on caring for myself and my loved ones and not dwell on the hurt and feeling hatred towards anyone.

 

[FoxSauce]

Close people ignore it just idk move on the best you can

Someone else...depends...feeling the guilt for a long time or be distracted so you dont have to think about it.

Out of sight of out mind
Bites ya in the ass later tho

Edit: also I forgot to add is ok for you to leave that person behind and seek help or talk to someone too. Those are just how i deal with it.

 

[anopenwound]

The reality is that, at some point, being that close to someone that hurt you all the time kinda foces you to grow out of it. Take it from someone that decided to resist this: it doesn't work. It only delays the inevitable. It will take some active suffering to get to a point where you're gonna be ok with it, but better to face it head on.