how to be more affectionate??

[honeydippin]

I dont know how to be more affectionate nowadays, sorry for my switch of tone since my last thread,,

I dont know how to be more affectionate or caring or show someone that I see them
maybe because im scared of showing vulnerability

any tips ? I keep hearing from my peers and my boyfriend that they dont rlly feel seen anymore or they feellike I dont rlly appreciate them but thats far what I actually feel . IM PLEADING FOR TIPS!!

 

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Tht quz cn hlp u undrstnd hw u xpress lve & carng thru u own persnlty
Cld alwys ask ur frnds & bf if thy r willng t/ tke also & u cn undrstnd whre u mght b misundrstandng ech othr

Also if ppl r notcing a diffrnce in u u cld alwys ask thm 2 b specfc abt hw thy r feelng ur b-havr hs changd

Also puttng brthdys or d8ts tht r imprtnt 2 ur innr circl in ir calndr s/ tht thy knw tht thngs tht mattr t/ thm also mattr 2 u
Ask ppl hw r thy r & chck in on thm smetmes - listn 2 thm whn thy r tellng u hw thy r & wht = happnng in thr lves
Snd thm jkes or thngs tht u c onlne tht remnd u of thm & tll thm
Gve thm ur physcl tme spendng tme wth thm if u cn

Thse r sme of th/ bascs bt also mke sre u r nt ovr-stretchng urslf 2 mch

Also r u on spectrm or smethng tht lke whch mght mke hw u xpress urslf dffrntly t/ othrs