I attempted suicide last summer, and it's the only "real" attempt I've had. To make a long story short, I had been battling awful depression for the best part of 11 months and nearing the end of my rope. I tried to overdose on my antidepressants at the time (which was Lexapro). I took around 300 mg of the drug and them went to sleep. I remember waking up and just thinking "fuck fuck fuck fuck". It physically hurt to move and soon I'd have to face my mother's reaction.
She came up to my room and asked what happened to the bottle and all the pills. I told her "I took them", but she didn't believe me. I kept saying "I took them, I took them". She asked why so I replied with "to die". Her response: "well, you didn't do a good job".
I was forced to go to the ER without any say on the matter whatsoever. They brought me into a room with, and I fuck you not, a mattress and nothing more. Not even a pillow, just a hard and shitty mattress. No one there could care any less about me or my situation. This isn't even me jumping to conclusions. My mom was working with them on placing me in a facility to stay indefinitely. The place they planned on sending me had awful reviews and was 2-3 hours away. The lady just looked at us with indifference, shrugged, and went on about how "it's the only option".
From 2pm to 6am the next day, I wasn't allowed to do anything. I was only given a bag of chips to eat. No phone. No tv. No privacy. No care. I just cried on and off wishing I chose a more lethal method of taking my life.
I rode on an ambulance for about 2.5 hours south to the psych hospital. This place somehow managed to do the unthinkable and be miles worse than the ER. The food was old and tasted awful. They always had a shortage of pillows and blankets as well as things like toothbrushes. We were bade to share a room with another person (literally no choice but to comply). Though, the worst part was easily the fact it was so unfathomably boring. The only room we could be in had a tv and a few word searches with worn out pens and crayons. You literally weren't allowed to be in your room and had to stay with everyone else.
Only one ten-minute phone call was allowed per day at around 8pm. No visitors either due to the pandemic. I'd call my mom and the conversation always lead to me begging to leave. Once, I was on the cusp of a meltdown, and all the staff could say was "your time's up".
There weren't even proper therapy sessions nor any form of counseling. No one on one support was given. Group "therapy" was once a day and can only be described as a dark, unfunny joke.
The trauma this hellhole brought upon me still lingers to this day. The nightmares I had have thankfully become less frequent, but the anger persists. There are hundreds of psych hospitals which exploit those suffering from mental illness and hide under the guise of "helping" us. I'm not sure on the exact cost of all the medical "care" I received, but I estimated the total to clock in at around $10,000. This is absurd and shouldn't be acceptable. The selfish assholes who decided American medical expenses should be this outrageous are sadistic and unbelievably cruel.
This experience has taught me things though:
1. If you open up about your problems, you are punished beyond all belief.
2. Free healthcare is necessary.
3. Your family and so called friends are apathetic towards your well-being.
When/if I try to kill myself, I'll make sure I don't fuck it up. And if I survive, no one will know.