Discussion How many of you all would want be alive again if your ex partners comme back?

[fuzattojuliana]

I think about my life is the only way to save me. Like it save me at 2019, when I was almost to jump from my house second floor and she said for don't do that, because she loved me. Now, I'm alone and some last times we talk she said that life is like that ephemeral. But backing more in our last talks she open once a hope to a come back, when I wanted suicide me in a bullfight at Spain:"How do you gonna reconquest me if you gonna to Spain?" but more recently she said:"If São Pedro makes you suffer so much why don't you go France?" basically I got it as:"Okay, I don't love you anymore." at the recent part of break up she was more receptive, lovely, now she is far and cold.

 

[marcusuk63]

In the long years i`ve been alive , far too long for my liking , i`ve got back with two partners , it NEVER works and make you feel even worse the second time it's over,
My advice is dont even think about the possibility , its extremely hard and painful I know ,trust me I know.
Take Bonnies advice x

 

[mathieu]

I'm not interested in getting back together with any of my exes but I have hooked up with this guy twice and I would stay alive for him if he wanted me.

 

[offthewalltw]

My exes are my exes because they stopped caring about me and started caring for another man. My exes are like needles in my back

 

[141592653]

My exes are my friend. They support me.

 

[fuzattojuliana]

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My exes are my exes because they stopped caring about me and started caring for another man. My exes are like needles in my back

Same here.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

An ex isn't an ex for nothing. I'm friends with my last one, that's good enough. From what I experienced myself and seen with friends, getting back together almost never works.

 

[almost_dead]

Nope . I have 2 exes . I am still recovering from the last one . As for the first one I completely forgot her .

 

[nitroautnz]

I think about my life is the only way to save me. Like it save me at 2019, when I was almost to jump from my house second floor and she said for don't do that, because she loved me. Now, I'm alone and some last times we talk she said that life is like that ephemeral. But backing more in our last talks she open once a hope to a come back, when I wanted suicide me in a bullfight at Spain:"How do you gonna reconquest me if you gonna to Spain?" but more recently she said:"If São Pedro makes you suffer so much why don't you go France?" basically I got it as:"Okay, I don't love you anymore." at the recent part of break up she was more receptive, lovely, now she is far and cold.

Everyone is different, each relationship is different too, but if my ex comes back with me, i won't say i will never ctb, but it will help to stick around to see what the futur have in stock for me. It makes life a bit more bearable.

 

[Dead beat dad]

Some partners destroy each others lives and this continues after they go their separate ways or even die.
I think a lot of people here wrestle with the way they treated and were treated by ex partners a lot, its not an easy thing to let go of.
My ex did a pretty savage number on me, and then she asked to get back together, and this opened up a cycle of rinse and repeat. .. As much as I wanted to be with her I had to let her go...
An ex occupies a particular place in our history, but we cannot change time, there is light and darkness in that place. Happiness and regret existing at the same time.
I'm not sure where in going with this, but since this is a recovery thread I'm saying, see it for what it is and try to let it go (super easy to say)

Love and respect brothers and sisters

DBD

 

[Deleted member 17331]

I hate that idea.

But I will not lie, it has crossed my mind since he left me...

Love always ends, and tore in the end.

 

[Viro_Major]

Guess it all depends on the nature of the separation, if it fades away with erosion and mutual consent or is abrupt with disrespect or betray. Nowadays, I wouldn't believe in fighting what's not meant to be, when there's a mismatch of feelings with one desiring to move on and the other one to sticky but repulsed with friendship or disdain.
...In hindsight, I would run away faster than Ussain Bolt and not cry a single tear! Something that was impossible to conceive in the moment.
Many fishes in the sea (also hiding under rocks), and some are waiting out there, wishing to treat you good. Even if most stories are transitory by nature, to factor in. Got to self-respect persistently what you're worth and meet those who will realize it to go through moments of existence at the right times.
At the end of the day, cold behavior deserves cold theory to boomerang. Take that ! But it can only work if you're at least minimally conscious and confident you're not trash (without pretension)

 

[I_love_to_bake]

Yeah, 100%. even though its been like 5 years

 

[fuzattojuliana]

Yeah, 100%. even though its been like 5 years

Same to me, I hope once people have emotional responsibility.

 

[mapletree]

Don't feel strongly one way or the other. What's done is done, unless someone has a mind eraser or time machine it won't make a difference

 

[voyager (D)]

Love is not lovely. My exes are allowed to go to hell.

 

[muffin222]

No. In fact, my ex partner actually did ctb last year after we broke up :\

 

[Worthless_nobody]

My last ex hell no. He is the one who finished killing me off with his abuse and brought me to my lowest point ever. My ex who died ...yes I wish I had him back but it would still need to be different because sadly nothing worked out. The rest no not really they are just people from my past.

 

[Xocoyotziin]

Lol if my ex came back I would be worried that it's a part of some convoluted plot to get revenge on me. I regret a lot of that relationship and how it ended but not that it did.

 

[scorpiooo2]

My ex hates me and I hate him in a way but I'd be much happier if he would come back and love me again.

 

[SnowWhite]

In my experience the second time, if it ever comes, is always shorter and more unstable than the first time. Often results in disappointment when it falls through again.

With the exception of one ex, I wouldn't even want any ex back, as I know it would go horribly. Even the one ex who is an exception, I doubt it would make me any happier or give me a reason to keep going

 

[Futile]

I wish I had exes, at least they would have been some life exepriences to build on. Instead I have nothing

 

[Life_and_Death]

I miss my ex. And he knows it. And he misses me too. But I was too stupid to see it so I left. He also knows I blame myself for it. Although I'm not sure if he still knows that. Last I think I mentioned was ill try to forgive myself but I cant

 

[Mr2005]

The love of my life was me. That's the person I want back but they're gone and I can't live without them

 

[Amumu]

I've never been with a girlfriend, so I can't tell. But if I were with the girl I loved, I would be happier for sure.
Fucking sexfriends and hookers makes me actually emptier inside.

 

[WinterFaust]

My ex was my best friend for years before we dated. Most of my happiest memories were with them. We broke up a little over a year ago and embarrassingly my life has only continued to go down the drain. I miss them but I wouldn't want to get back together.

I'd just like to be emotionally and mentally stable enough to perhaps love myself despite all of my mistakes. Maybe then I could date someone else. I'd like to.

 

[Chupacabra 44]

Not me. I take the view in life that for myself it's best to keep moving forward, as best I possibly can. Perhaps, applying this concept to my various ex partners was watching my mom marry and divorce my stepfather TWICE. I didn't sense progress in her doing this.

 

[Istanbulite]

If she did come back saying I love you, that would have helped matters, for sure. drastically even.