How long since the last time that you had sex with other person ?

[calssilva]

Just a quick question, but just if you feel comfortable answering it

In my case, it's been 3 months (by the time she left me and the main reason of my depression)

 

[grungeCat]

I've never had any sex with other human being.

 

[sparkie]

I have a great sex life with myself even yesterday Bettie Bondage from xhamster (she is amazing) gave me a spiritual experience very explosive but regarding sex with another person probably ten years but im going through problems for years so sex is the least of my worries

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

Covid put a stop to it

 

[Tkmiz_Tsukumizu]

10 years almost

 

[BornofDust]

Never. Probably never will at this point.

 

[I want to end it]

I only had sex once in my life. It was about 7 years ago and it was awkward and not how I imagined it would be. It was lucky how it happened. I was complaining on a forum that I was depressed and she messaged me and we found out we lived near each other and she suggested meeting. I think she had sex because she felt sorry for me more than anything and she was single. We didn't have sex or see each other again after that, because she found it too awkward.

I can't see how I will ever get sex again, without paying for it. I have not had any chance for sex before then or since then.

 

[usernameforhere]

Friday, but I really didn't enjoy it.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

It's been about 27 years since I've touched a vagina.

 

[lofticries]

Uhhhh, since forever.

But for the longest time I thought I was asexual and was put off by the idea of having sex until recently. Like I still watched porn and read erotica but the thought of me engaging in sexual activities made me feel terrible/weird. Anyway when I finally do lose my virginity it'll be to a hook up since relationships make me uncomfortable. But obviously can't do that now with corona.

 

[GreenTree]

6 months for me. I used to have it lots. A bad habit though really. Not all it cracks up too be. It's too easy now too get sex. So many one night stands. I'm guilty of sleeping around. Fun at the time but bad in long term for health.

 

[Trans Magus]

I'm probably going to die a virgin. Trans, NEET, only into women. Not happening for me.

 

[BrokenArrow]

1 year for me. I'm trying to get back into dating as lockdown ends, but I really struggle to keep messaging the girls - when you're suicidal you just don't give a fuck about anything. Also worried about what I'll say on a date at this point "so, how's it going?" "well, I'm gonna kill myself, so I've got that going for me"

 

[ThrownAwayTom]

Around 2 years or so, with someone from work on a drunk night out - it was not enjoyable and made things awkward for the short time I worked there after. In terms of actual meaningful sex, 4 years ago with my ex. She was my only sexual partner and made me realise that it can be an amazing thing with someone you love. At least I thought so.. A year after we split she passively told me she doesn't remember much of us together - maybe it was in spite but damn lol

I've kind of given up on the idea of it now - nobody wants this lmao and the effort it can take to get to that point can be absurd, especially as a guy (no incel vibes intended)

 

[BrokenArrow]

the effort it can take to get to that point can be absurd

THIS ^^^^^

As a suicidal introvert, dating is one of the most exhausting things ever.. I keep thinking, shit, how am I gonna even have the energy to do the whole dating process? and then I just stop replying to them.

I forced myself to do loads of dating a couple of years ago when I was travelling because I thought loads of sex might make me happy...well, obviously it didn't and the process gets so tiring - you exert tons of energy to be charming and escalate things, finally get sex, only to have the urges return within an hour and then you gotta do ti again..

I can see why people date on SS - 2 suicidal people would actually have a pretty instant connection and you'd both be aware of each other's fragile mental health, so no awkward convos there, just acceptance

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Almost 2 years ago

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

(no incel vibes intended)

 

[Last chance]

Nearly two months,after 2 years of getting it and getting it good when ever I wanted it it's very depressing.

 

[Quinlor]

never, someone can help me
I'm joking... actually I never met somebody that liked to laid with me

 

[Makko]

28 year old christmas cake reporting in

 

[WornOutLife]

Last January and I'm like "Okay, I've managed to have sex this year. She was probably the last girl I'll have sex with"
I really think I'm done with sex now lol.

 

[Lucien]

Week ago. Trying to cut contact now. With them being well off I wonder if I could secure a fantastic method via boot licking.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

christmas cake

Yeah, right.

Week ago. Trying to cut contact now. With them being well off I wonder if I could secure a fantastic method via boot licking.

Sexual favours for N?

 

[Makko]

Yeah, right.

My family is quite convinced I'm spoiled goods. I don't really disagree.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

My family is quite convinced I'm spoiled goods. I don't really disagree.

 

[BrokenArrow]

28 year old christmas cake reporting in

Christmas cake because of age? Or other reasons? 28 seems too young to be christmas cake?

 

[Worndown]

Yesterday

 

[Lucien]

Sexual favours for N?

The double finish.

 

[Makko]

Christmas cake because of age? Or other reasons? 28 seems too young to be christmas cake?

It doesn't really matter since I currently live in Europe where there are no such concepts, but psychologically I've checked out long ago.

 

[StringPuppet]

Maybe I had sex in a previous lifetime if those exist