how i found out about my last ex cheating/got closure (iphone)

[fastFWD]

so my ex had an iphone and i got her an ipad mini. during the natural course of the ipad mini setup she used her icloud account and it linked/synced the devices. during our relationship i would borrow the mini occasionally for games/what not and eventually ended up with it after the breakup. one day i was taking a pic and then went to look at it and i noticed all of her phone pics current/past were available to see from this device as well as contact book and some imessages(iphone to iphone texts) that she had/was sending. so yeah it was interesting to see her naked selfies/hidden adventure pics/contacts/messages and match them up with dates for closure. what a nasty bitch! hope this helps someone lol.

 

[Dead beat dad]

so my ex had an iphone and i got her an ipad mini. during the natural course of the ipad mini setup she used her icloud account and it linked/synced the devices. during our relationship i would borrow the mini occasionally for games/what not and eventually ended up with it after the breakup. one day i was taking a pic and then went to look at it and i noticed all of her phone pics current/past were available to see from this device as well as contact book and some imessages(iphone to iphone texts) that she had/was sending. so yeah it was interesting to see her naked selfies/hidden adventure pics/contacts/messages and match them up with dates for closure. what a nasty bitch! hope this helps someone lol.

I'm glad this has brought you closure brother and your u have handled this in a mature way, think how many people would 'blow up' in this situation

 

[Severen]

so my ex had an iphone and i got her an ipad mini. during the natural course of the ipad mini setup she used her icloud account and it linked/synced the devices. during our relationship i would borrow the mini occasionally for games/what not and eventually ended up with it after the breakup. one day i was taking a pic and then went to look at it and i noticed all of her phone pics current/past were available to see from this device as well as contact book and some imessages(iphone to iphone texts) that she had/was sending. so yeah it was interesting to see her naked selfies/hidden adventure pics/contacts/messages and match them up with dates for closure. what a nasty bitch! hope this helps someone lol.

My ex girlfriend was more sneaky about it. She would tell me, she was going to go out and hang out with a female friend... Very hard to catch people like that if you are naive.

 

[DoomedxFromBirth]

My ex girlfriend was more sneaky about it. She would tell me, she was going to go out and hang out with a female friend... Very hard to catch people like that if you are naive.

Im too paranoid for life. Even in love anyone can catch these paranoid hands

 

[Severen]

Im too paranoid for life. Even in love anyone can catch these paranoid hands

I eventually caught her though. She underestimated my level of intelligence and powers.

 

[not_a_robot]

SPOILER ALERT: Every "monogamous" relationship contains at least one cheater. If it isn't you, it's your partner. But most often it's both. Relationships are stupid, they are just a competition to try to control each other. I cannot tell you how many married men I've had affairs with who then got pissy when their wife cheated. Fucking hypocrites. Nobody really wants to be faithful but they all expect their partners to be. It's so childish.

 

[Severen]

SPOILER ALERT: Every "monogamous" relationship contains at least one cheater. If it isn't you, it's your partner.

Naturally, because the honeymoon period ends, eventually and then one partner wants to experience getting high all over again.

 

[Faraway1990]

SPOILER ALERT: Every "monogamous" relationship contains at least one cheater. If it isn't you, it's your partner.

I disagree but I understand you have had your life experiences and I respect that can we be friends?:)

 

[Severen]

I disagree but I understand you have had your life experiences and I respect that can we be friends?:)

You will learn, sooner or later... Some people are sneaky, like secret agent level sneaky.

 

[not_a_robot]

You will learn, sooner or later... Some people are sneaky, like secret agent level sneaky.

People who sneak around on their partners are trying to recreate the sneakiness of having to hide things from their parents, it's infantile. They get a big thrill from feeling like they are getting away with it. I think anyone who cheats on their longterm partner is a full-blown sociopath, and that's 99% of the population.

 

[Faraway1990]

You will learn, sooner or later... Some people are sneaky, like secret agent level sneaky.

I'm not naïve I've experienced it first hand but I've also experienced love with someone who when we met we were both 15 and never fell out of love with each other but life and short sighted behaviour ruined it and although everything is strong as ever we can't be together no matter how much we both may want it and always being taunted by that is one of the contributing factors of my choice to CTB but once again I appreciate you have had your life experiences and I see you speaking a lot of truth here which I respect friend :) I don't mean that condisendingly I like seeing life from other peoples pov thank you for replying to me

People who sneak around on their partners are trying to recreate the sneakiness of having to hide things from their parents, it's infantile. They get a big thrill from feeling like they are getting away with it. I think anyone who cheats on their longterm partner is a full-blown sociopath, and that's 99% of the population.

Nothing for me to disagree with there's a reason I can connect with many on this site, good people get messed with by society and these types of people.

 

[sillyusername69]

I've 100% given up on romance and sex. I used to be bisexual and found women pretty attractive even when in a hetero monogamous relationship. Now I am asexual. I feel repelled by other people especially when they hit on me. I can't even look at women the same. It's nice though.
I pretty much see a bunch of humans around me and that's it. I think I just dislike people as a whole
My first long term relationship I was chronically cheated on over 2 years. Then the next was obsessed with porn fantasies. The last cheated emotionally and it destroyed me. I also just am not in the state to be romantic anyways, plus sex feels fake/unsatisfying.

 

[GinaIsReady]

Cheaters = sociopaths, imho

 

[sillyusername69]

Cheaters = sociopaths, imho

Yeah i think so too. One of mine was an alcoholic so at least unstable.

 

[GinaIsReady]

Yeah i think so too. One of mine was an alcoholic so at least unstable.

I hate the motherfuckers.