Wayfaerer
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- Aug 21, 2019
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I have set my date for late November and I wanted to know how to mentally prepare for following through. I am not CTB because I have a innate hatred for life (even though there are serious problems with it!) but due to very unfavorable circumstances with lifelong implications. I have decided that my last straw is going to be failing out of school despite having made it very far (only 3 classes left but they're my hardest!) If it weren't for the coronavirus pandemic, I am sure that I would've died back in april/may of this year but it had prolonged my existence by 6 months. I loved school, don't get me wrong, and there isn't a place that I would've rather been but other circumstances have made life unbearable for me in the long-term. I have used up all of my drops and the only choice I am left with this semester is to fail all across the board. Taking time off of school would've been impossible considering my parents so I had to enroll against my will. I also get free money for enrolling each semester so I wanted to make up for whatever lost time I had. Suicide when it practically speaking is not a choice makes it extremely stressful. Seeing how I have never attempted suicide before, I will be delving into a world of unknowns that I have no experience with.
I maintain a lot of unrealized ambitions and I have a lot of life experiences that I missed out on and remain unfulfilled. I am young but not very young as I'm already in my late 20's. A couple of years ago, I finally discovered what it actually meant to "live" and it changed my perspective a lot. However, it was pulled away from me almost as fast as I had attained it. If I had felt this earlier, I would've not pissed around so much. All of this makes the prospect of suicide even more gut-wrenching than it otherwise would've been. The way I thought of it in the past is that when I die, from my perspective it will be as if I had never lived at all so why would it matter? I suppose that's true but being aware of it in life is still a titanic downer. I am also sure that I will surprise everyone in my family despite how wretched I look, they wouldn't have been able to expect this outcome. The timing is also shitty because last year I at least took peace in the fact that I wouldn't be killing myself around the holidays but I cannot put it off anymore. I have decided on CTB since the beginning of summer last year and no matter how much time I had to dwell on it, it still hasn't gotten any easier.
How do I make peace with a premature death that you can see coming like the headlights on an incoming train -- a death that I will be inflicting upon myself? What are my odds if I had never attempted before? How can I be sure that no matter how bad it gets that I won't back out out of instinct? How do you get ready when it comes time to make the most important decision in one's life?
I maintain a lot of unrealized ambitions and I have a lot of life experiences that I missed out on and remain unfulfilled. I am young but not very young as I'm already in my late 20's. A couple of years ago, I finally discovered what it actually meant to "live" and it changed my perspective a lot. However, it was pulled away from me almost as fast as I had attained it. If I had felt this earlier, I would've not pissed around so much. All of this makes the prospect of suicide even more gut-wrenching than it otherwise would've been. The way I thought of it in the past is that when I die, from my perspective it will be as if I had never lived at all so why would it matter? I suppose that's true but being aware of it in life is still a titanic downer. I am also sure that I will surprise everyone in my family despite how wretched I look, they wouldn't have been able to expect this outcome. The timing is also shitty because last year I at least took peace in the fact that I wouldn't be killing myself around the holidays but I cannot put it off anymore. I have decided on CTB since the beginning of summer last year and no matter how much time I had to dwell on it, it still hasn't gotten any easier.
How do I make peace with a premature death that you can see coming like the headlights on an incoming train -- a death that I will be inflicting upon myself? What are my odds if I had never attempted before? How can I be sure that no matter how bad it gets that I won't back out out of instinct? How do you get ready when it comes time to make the most important decision in one's life?