Discussion How do you cope with the fact that people who are evil live happy lives while victims have to remember?

[phantomisgone]

I can't take that reality anymore. It makes me so furious, sad, and hopeless.

 

[suicidalenby]

honestly im right next to you, its so enraging and makes me lose hope. i wish things could be different

 

[venin]

I don't. I hate life for this, people, "the Universe", gods, everything.

It's one of the most disheartening and enraging facts about situations like ours.

A lot of people told me "they will pay for it, you rest assured". No they won't! The don't give a rat's ass about it. They go on with their lives like it never happened.

 

[UKscotty]

They infact get happier and take pleasure from it, which is the most perverse bit.

The more angry victims are, the happier the abuser. Crazy world.

 

[theRetroHawk]

Yeah one of my main piss offs and reasons I want to ctb is that I was born like this, like I couldn't have been born some evil, selfish douche or something who is naive and only things about themselves like nah this is me depressed as hell constantly getting fucked.

 

[brokeandbroken]

I can't take that reality anymore. It makes me so furious, sad, and hopeless.

Thats my reality too. In medical school I was bullied/isolated by the fellow students, treated like shit by the faculty. Crimes committed against me by the school. I was everyones favorite punching bag. All I wanted to do was become an oncologist and help people... It infuriates me that these people are going to become doctors and hurt people. Or the fact they are so flippantly mistreating people. That people won't be held accountable. I would say how do they look themselves in the mirror but... They won't care. I doubt they even remember me. If they do probably still poke fun.

Ultimately, though I'm most bothered by the fact no one in society/the world cares. It's the legal equivalent of if a tree falls in the woods. If you can't get help did the crime(s) really happen? I studied all my life to help those in need and in mine no one was there to help me.

For me it's a microcosm of society. Society is to blame... Those that are evil live happily because most people are selfish and lazy. Society allows evil people to be happy end of story.

 

[rotciv]

Well, we have to see that we all age and with the going of the carriage all "we" will end up old and sick almost inevitably = inevitable suffering regardless of whether the person was good or bad

 

[Forever Sleep]

I just see it as a reflection of this human world and the way it's going. Bit like in nature- where sometimes it's the cruellest, most ruthless that survives. I think that has in part translated into the human world. Sometimes, I think it will only be the narcissists and sociopaths that can cope in the future. But then I just think- I can't wait to be free of all of it. Let them have this world and consume one another. I'm just glad I haven't had children to have to suffer people like that.

 

[Nlis2244]

I try to remind myself that all the evil that happens doesn't matter in the great scheme of things, and that evil people will be forgotten just like the suffering they caused. Still, it hurts to know they won't be punished. so my second cope is just to hope that i'll be gone soon and won't have to think about any of this.

 

[FuneralCry]

I just see it as being the hellish reality of existence, humans are certainly the worst species to me, and this futile cycle of endless suffering and senseless cruelty certainly repulses me. I could never see this reality as being acceptable, I find it tragic how anyone has to suffer at all.

 

[sammiechzxv]

I don't. I just try not to think about it. Makes me too sad.