How do shy, nice women survive this world?

[Kramer]

I'm a guy who I guess would be considered more sensitive than the average guy and it's been hell for me. How do sensitive women handle life, especially if the guys in their ethnic group are naturally more aggressive? My example refers to Latino culture.

This question has always puzzled me.

 

[woxihuanni]

Shy women have extremely high sexual market value. I don't fetch a penny to save my literal life because I am no princess like that.

 

[Kramer]

Shy women have extremely high sexual market value. I don't fetch a penny to save my literal life because I am no princess like that.

Why do they have high sexual market value? Because more feminine? How do they survive being around people who are aggressive?

 

[Brick In The Wall]

The answer is simple, nice people in general, end up here. Because the world chews them up and spits them out.

 

[woxihuanni]

Why do they have high sexual market value? Because more feminine? How do they survive being around people who are aggressive?

Yes it is, also why shy men don't fare well. They dob't have to survive, their man protects them. Only ugly, worthless meat like me are forced to struggle for survival.

 

[Kramer]

The answer is simple, nice people in general, end up here. Because the world chews them up and spits them out.

Even among the women who aren't white or Asian? Asians and whites tend to have higher suicide rates.

Yes it is, also why shy men don't fare well. They dob't have to survive, their man protects them. Only ugly, worthless meat like me are forced to struggle for survival.

so that's why I attracted that particular girl I can't get over. She was looking for a protector type guy, I appear strong and confident. Unfortunately on the inside I'm timid.

 

[woxihuanni]

Even among the women who aren't white or Asian? Asians and whites tend to have higher suicide rates.

so that's why I attracted that particular girl I can't get over. She was looking for a protector type guy, I appear strong and confident. Unfortunately on the inside I'm timid.

Fake it till you make it, they say. I cannot even fake anything. I envy women who get raped, to illustrate how much my meat is worth.

 

[Kramer]

Fake it till you make it, they say. I cannot even fake anything. I envy women who get raped, to illustrate how much my meat is worth.

Thanks for replying. I'm sorry you haven't had luck with men.

I can only fake it in the beginning. It's how I'm able to attract them to begin with. The thing is I'm always anxious so I don't know how it's not always obvious.

 

[woxihuanni]

Thanks for replying. I'm sorry you haven't had luck with men.

I can only fake it in the beginning. It's how I'm able to attract them to begin with. The thing is I'm always anxious so I don't know how it's not always obvious.

People are often more anxious than they give away.

 

[Kramer]

People are often more anxious than they give away.

So it must be when my anxiety is extreme when my mask slips.

 

[woxihuanni]

So it must be when my anxiety is extreme when my mask slips.

Must be. Anxiety is relatively treatable, propranolol may be good because it is not a cray cray medicine to fuck up your brain, but reduces anxiety in a bodily way if that is the word.

 

[Kramer]

Must be. Anxiety is relatively treatable, propranolol may be good because it is not a cray cray medicine to fuck up your brain, but reduces anxiety in a bodily way if that is the word.

Must be. Anxiety is relatively treatable, propranolol may be good because it is not a cray cray medicine to fuck up your brain, but reduces anxiety in a bodily way if that is the word.

That med hasn't helped. My anxiety is tied to ptsd and ocd. Those two issues get worse with time. I really wish I died during the abuse as a kid. To grow up wishing to be normal and to be so close to it is a kind of hell.

 

[woxihuanni]

That med hasn't helped. My anxiety is tied to ptsd and ocd. Those two issues get worse with time. I really wish I died during the abuse as a kid. To grow up wishing to be normal and to be so close to it is a kind of hell.

Ouch, it must be really hard. I don't have anything useful to offer but just wish you relief somehow.

 

[Aurora]

I'm very shy and can verify that the world is not kind to women like me. I've been abused by pretty much everyone and haven't found my voice yet. No white knight to save me like in these silly romcoms. This is a brutal world for shy people in general.

 

[Kramer]

Ouch, it must be really hard. I don't have anything useful to offer but just wish you relief somehow.

Yeah that's the thing. My parents can't help, therapists can't help, etc. It's beyond tragic. I feel like I'm being pushed into death. I'd rather not die

I'm very shy and can verify that the world is not kind to women like me. I've been abused by pretty much everyone and haven't found my voice yet. No white knight to save me like in these silly romcoms. This is a brutal world for shy people in general.

This makes me sad. I'm sorry. Now I'm wishing I had tried for that girl, but I don't think I could've saved her or being a good protector. I can't even save or protect myself.

 

[woxihuanni]

Yeah that's the thing. My parents can't help, therapists can't help, etc. It's beyond tragic. I feel like I'm being pushed into death. I'd rather not die

This makes me sad. I'm sorry. Now I'm wishing I had tried for that girl, but I don't think I could've saved her or being a good protector. I can't even save or protect myself.

I'd rather not die, too. It is pretty shit all around.

 

[Kramer]

I'd rather not die, too. It is pretty shit all around.

I wonder how many successful suicides are carried out by people who would rather have lived.

 

[woxihuanni]

I wonder how many successful suicides are carried out by people who would rather have lived.

Lots, things like unemployment, homelessness, loneliness and physical disease probably cause more suicides than 'wanting to die'.

 

[Kramer]

Lots, things like unemployment, homelessness, loneliness and physical disease probably cause more suicides than 'wanting to die'.

So it's done because the life they want isn't possible.

 

[woxihuanni]

So it's done because the life they want isn't possible.

Precisely.

 

[Kramer]

Precisely.

That would apply to me then. But death doesn't feel comforting even though I liked being under anesthesia. Death feels dark and cold.

 

[woxihuanni]

That would apply to me then. But death doesn't feel comforting even though I liked being under anesthesia. Death feels dark and cold.

Death is fucking terrifying to me. But I don't have an option or much time.

 

[Kramer]

Death is fucking terrifying to me. But I don't have an option or much time.

Dying scares me. If death is nothing, then it seems sad and lonely forever.

 

[naaras]

We don't survive.

 

[Kramer]

We don't survive.

They don't all kill themselves.

 

[naaras]

They don't all kill themselves.

They still die

 

[Kramer]

They still die

They're all murdered?

 

[Disappointered]

Shy women get shitty lives as well but I do think it's slightly better - all other things equal - than being a shy male.

 

[Kramer]

Shy women get shitty lives as well but I do think it's slightly better - all other things equal - than being a shy male.

Why do I seem to attract the shy type? Is it because I appear like a strong protector type? Sad thing is I'm just their male equivalent despite my appearance

 

[Disappointered]

Maybe it's your height/physique?