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That's interesting, I saw some facebook ad (that's probably based on biased research) that people are more likely to open up to strangers than close friends. I don't really have a problem opening up to strangers usually, with a few exceptions that are kinda random and uncorrelated I think.I could never get myself to open up. I won't tell a room full of unknown faces what is going on in my head. I won't even tell faces I do know (mostly bc I will get sent away lol).
I did 5 weeks of partial hospitalization (6 hours/day 5 days/week group therapy) followed by 3 weeks of intensive outpatient (3 hours/day 3 days/week group therapy) with the same group of people. I think I felt better* for a while because it was the first time in my life I felt like I had friends who really got it. And there were fun artsy activities to take your mind off things. Hanging out was technically against group rules and probably good reason. I still keep in touch with some individually, they're good people but the group dynamic was a mess for reasons you can probably guess. Could've been worse, but I think we all just knew it wasn't meant to last.In movies after a character attempts, they go to group therapy, then feel better, but that's is not how it is for most ppl. It might help you, but I think it takes a specific person to be able to get thru it.
I was almost able to do partial hospitalization, but I didn't have a ride or time. We had group therapy in the hospital when I was fully hospitalized. We also had activities like that.That's interesting, I saw some facebook ad (that's probably based on biased research) that people are more likely to open up to strangers than close friends. I don't really have a problem opening up to strangers usually, with a few exceptions that are kinda random and uncorrelated I think.
I did 5 weeks of partial hospitalization (6 hours/day 5 days/week group therapy) followed by 3 weeks of intensive outpatient (3 hours/day 3 days/week group therapy) with the same group of people. I think I felt better* for a while because it was the first time in my life I felt like I had friends who really got it. And there were fun artsy activities to take your mind off things. Hanging out was technically against group rules and probably good reason. I still keep in touch with some individually, they're good people but the group dynamic was a mess for reasons you can probably guess. Could've been worse, but I think we all just knew it wasn't meant to last.
*Better did not equal not suicidal though, we had to report ideations every morning and everyone was lowkey concerned about me because mine never went away after all that time.
Virtual once/week (if that) support group though? Meh. Throw in 12 step formalities in there? Oof.
You didn't miss out on much. I on the other hand missed out on a year of grad school though for just 2 months of treatment lol. The remaining 10 months (well, 8, another 2 were later spent in residential) were painfully (that word feels like an understatement) boring.I was almost able to do partial hospitalization, but I didn't have a ride or time. We had group therapy in the hospital when I was fully hospitalized. We also had activities like that.
I'm glad you benefitted! I heard good things about this one when I was in residential treatment (we had to go to online support groups 4 nights a week). They actually forced me into this one my first week and I was pretty bitter because I don't really identify as coming from an Alcoholic or dysfunctional family. I mean, they're not perfect, but I didn't resonate with much of anything on the laundry list of issues that they gave.I benefited from them, but it may be hard to find one that works for you. I joined a Adult Children of Alcoholics (& Dysfunctional Families) group, ACoA. Mine was moderated by a therapist.
I've had this experience to some extent too with 12 steps. There's an EDA meeting for Atheists and Agnostics that I really liked as it changed the language to be more inclusive. I wish there was more of that.The degree of religiosity and adherence to the program probably varies the experience between groups quite a bit. As an atheist, I had to do a lot of mental gymnastics around the "higher power" concept, but I don't think it really hampered my usage of the rest of the material.
Interesting! I've essentially only done online.In the post-COVID era, I suspect that online-only groups have become even more common. Having done both, I would not recommend them. In-person is still the best way by far.
If you didn't resonate with any of the laundry list, then I don't recommend ACoA.I'm glad you benefitted! I heard good things about this one when I was in residential treatment (we had to go to online support groups 4 nights a week). They actually forced me into this one my first week and I was pretty bitter because I don't really identify as coming from an Alcoholic or dysfunctional family. I mean, they're not perfect, but I didn't resonate with much of anything on the laundry list of issues that they gave.
I've had this experience to some extent too with 12 steps. There's an EDA meeting for Atheists and Agnostics that I really liked as it changed the language to be more inclusive. I wish there was more of that.
Interesting! I've essentially only done online.