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Apr 26, 2025
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I feel like I want to die but I know people are gonna be severely depressed when it happens, do you guys know anything about how to make them stop feeling like that?
 
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Bottom line, there is no way of making the people that actually care about you less sad that you tok your own life. In my opinion the only thing you can do it's not make it worse with a resentful note or them finding your corpse.
 
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Unfortunately, other people are going to interpret whatever you do in their own way.

Even if you put painstaking effort in trying to lessen the impact, there is no guarantee that they'll act the way that you hope they will.

After all, your feelings are yours and their feelings are theirs.
 
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There's nothing you can really do to make people fully indifferent, but I'm going to try to soften the blow by writing notes tjat basically say "Don't feel sad" over and over again.

There's a very real likelihood that's going to do absolutely nothing though, so do keep that in mind.
 
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Bottom line, there is no way of making the people that actually care about you less sad that you tok your own life. In my opinion the only thing you can do it's not make it worse with a resentful note or them finding your corpse.
so do I write a note outside the door and tell them to not walk in?? Or would it be better to somehow hide the body completely and put the note in my room. And even if they did find my body, what would be recommended for them to do. Call 911 to take it?
 
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so do I write a note outside the door and tell them to not walk in?? Or would it be better to somehow hide the body completely and put the note in my room. And even if they did find my body, what would be recommended for them to do. Call 911 to take it?
What I found to be helpful is making your phone send an automated message a time after you know you would be passed (Iphones have this feature) as this will avoid them walking on you and seeing you, when I scheduled one for my partner I lived with I wrote where I was and to please call some kind of emergency services for them to open the door, thought nothing will stop someone from feeling sad, after all, it's a heavy topic to deal with
 
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Your phone can send an automated message? I didn't know that, but how do you make it do that? Also would you recommend me to run far somewhere so people can't find my body. And if so, where
 
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