No one is 100% healthy. Even the person you think has a perfcet life has issues, they just keep em quiet and in most cases try to deal with them the best they do. Bsically we are all on the same boat trying the best with the hand we have been dealt.
Thank you for that. I always assume that I'm the fucked up one and everyone else is fine. I'm very open with people about my struggles which is why I feel only I suffer.
Some older women like younger men. I have a friend that is a sugar babe for an older woman, they have like a 15 year age gap. So who knows maybe check if there are some sugar babe version for guys. Don´t know how old are we talking about, but what some female friends ahve told me is that after 35 or 40 they feel that they have missed the boat if they are single or no kids, so they are more open to whatever. Also in a lot of cases there is less competition as guys their age tend to prefer them younger.
Not a lot of people do it. Just be wise who you open up with..
Not hurt you, but some peole don´t like us "downers" and may get further away from you.
Oh. But you said everyone struggles. So why would they distance themselves from someone like them and everyone else?
Because some people don´t like to hear about other people´s problems. I mean real friend would be there to lend an ear, but eventually cna get tired.
I'm on disability too. Not that I'm physically disabled, it wasn't my choice to be on ssi, it was my grandparent's because I didn't know how to do things that other people could do at age 18. (Drive, pay bills, do taxes, etc.) so they saw me as a cash cow instead of teaching me these important things so I can be independent and free from their control. All of this makes being alone even more unbearable because my anxiety makes me believe that no man would want to date a loser like me.
Yeah my standards have risen after getting to know 2 women who are unlike any other women I've ever met. This life teases me constantly.
Mental disabilities are torture. Don't downplay it.
I have physical health problems but they're not debilitating. A few years ago that barely got off the ground.
My point is that if you don't love yourself, this will show up in other ways with a partner anyway. A loving partner can surely mirror back to you the things you may need at an unconscious level - of your self-worth, your loveability, but ultimately, a partner is just another human. They are limited. And to put all your hopes and expectations for happiness on another person is of questionable value imo. That's not to say you shouldn't pursue love. But not skip over the important work. Good luck.
I disagree even though it probably is true for many people.
in our Christian fellowship they always say seek God first, put God first and all the other things u want will be added on to u. I don't know if I totally buy it. I don't know if God can help me get a partner at this point. I'm not very young.
