How do I answer the question "What do you do?" without revealing I'm on disability?

[Ambivalent1]

@Skathon the normies won't want me?

 

[sancta-simplicitas]

That's always been my thinking. You can't hide something like that for long, and then they discover you're a liar and you lose them anyway lol

When that applies to every woman I've gone for, then I'm the one left unhappy and alone.

Trust me on this. When you're with someone who doesn't want you for you, but an idealized version of you you're still going to feel unhappy and alone. The loneliest places I've ever been in was in rooms full of people.

 

[Ambivalent1]

Trust me on this. When you're with someone who doesn't want you for you, but an idealized version of you you're still going to feel unhappy and alone. The loneliest places I've ever been in was in rooms full of people.

Lonely because they wouldn't really know me?

 

[sancta-simplicitas]

Lonely because they wouldn't really know me?

Yes. And the possibility that they'd leave if they got to know you. Loneliness isn't cured by being close to other people. It's when we feel accepted, wanted and nourished.