Rustysoupcan
I'm sensitive
- May 2, 2020
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Mental illness like to ruin your life, including relationships. Im wondering how it killed yours, because I'm currently losing the man I wanted to marry, so I guess I just wanted to feel not alone.
Pretty much the same. Anxiety is difficult and seen as week even though everyone has it. Nobody wants to be around it. Then you feel abandoned and isolated. You will lose many lovers and family and friends. Nobody wants to talk about how you got torn apart to be so anxious so you are also left with no closure. So fuck emMental illness like to ruin your life, including relationships. Im wondering how it killed yours, because I'm currently losing the man I wanted to marry, so I guess I just wanted to feel not alone.
I'll be your family. Fuck those people who left you over being anxious.Pretty much the same. Anxiety is difficult and seen as week even though everyone has it. Nobody wants to be around it. Then you feel abandoned and isolated. You will lose many lovers and family and friends. Nobody wants to talk about how you got torn apart to be so anxious so you are also left with no closure. So fuck em
It takes a certain kind of love to say "Hey we are both broken. Let's hold hands together." Like everyone throws other people away so easily. It's not about a first or second or third chance. It's about saying I'm always here for you. Most of us can't even get that from our parents let alone a friend or a lover. The grass is always greener... This is why I finally can't wait to CTB. Just go home and start over. Get some rest. Also my little boy is there. Your thoughts are very appreciated though. We need to remember that we are not all bad and we are trying to figure this out together.I'll be your family. Fuck those people who left you over being anxious.
PTSD! Right on the nose. All the abuse in this world at any age will destroy a person for life. Maybe when 75%-80% of us are totally ruined people will start to figure out we are on the wrong path? I think more then 60% of people are ruined and don't want to face up to it. I also think anyone happy is denying the real world or is totally blind. Though I wish I could just be ignorant and happy very much. Maybe next life?Hmm, mental illness wise, lots of people are turned off by me because my ptsd is incurable. Even in chronic illness support groups I've had people tell me that I just don't want to "take care of my own health" and accuse me of being toxic cause I don't want to be around my ptsd triggers.
Physical illness wise, chronic illness and chronic pain has decimated all my relations worse than the assassination of archduke Franz ferdinard destabilised European alliances. If you're no fun, not energetic, and not extroverted, good luck keeping friends and acquaintances.
I had to stop making plans with people as often during high school when I fell ill, as it was hard to predict how much pain I'd be in day to day. Nobody really understands unless they experience it firsthand.
I got groomed and abused as a result of my vulnerability as an autistic, disabled young woman. My ex used to scream in my face and jerk my arm because I'd go mute in a shop or something and be unable to talk. He forced me to work in a physically demanding job as soon as I turned 18, and told everyone around us that I was just a lazy, whiny little girl who didn't want to work when my body was in so much pain that I could do nothing but sleep everyday after work.
Because I had a mental health diagnosis, which doesn't mean shit in my opinion, other people wouldn't believe the extent to which I was being abused by that awful groomer. I begged others for a way out once things got really bad, and they didn't want to believe me because my ex was so charismatic and extroverted, while I was quiet and showed atypical body language due to autism.
Being so physically disabled leaves me reliant on others and in a constant state of beg and grovel for survival. I have to constantly worry about how much usefulness I am providing to others so that I don't get abandoned. Expressing my feelings of suicidality only ends in punishment, as people seriously believe that I "just don't want to try to get better" when I have attempted pretty much everything.
I barely talk to my friends because I can't be "fun." Going on nights out with my friends would leave me in a wrecked state the next day due to how much walking and physical activity is required. I hate drinking, and drinking is pretty much a requirement to obtain any sort of social life in this country, so I have to make my pain worse to fit in.
My boyfriend is constantly angry at me and threatening to break up with me or kick me out cause I'm so sick and suicidal, and he doesn't want to deal with it. To other people I am just a toy to play with and discard when they find something more amusing.
I lost the woman I wanted to marry 3 days ago. SN tomorrow. I'm so sorry to hear your struggle but sometimes you scar them too much and there is no going back.Mental illness like to ruin your life, including relationships. Im wondering how it killed yours, because I'm currently losing the man I wanted to marry, so I guess I just wanted to feel not alone.