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About the same length of time for me.
feel so fucking empty
You can try watching some more action-oriented stuff, let's say... like The Boys for example.
yeah, love is a strange thing. such as life. such as everything i guess.
i'm so sorry.
Yeah, i'm kind holding on the hope that she will come back, and I know it's a mistake but i just can't help. I feel like a slave of my own thoughts.
I'm so happy too.
I know what you mean, I was holding on to a false sense of hope for two months that he'll eventually text me and try to work things out but then after coming back from my trip to Poland, I noticed he removed me from his gaming discord server, and I realized that it was probably a sign to move on at that point. At first, when he decided to break up, I tried to save the relationship by giving him space or offering long-distance, but it was only pushing him away further, I was in denial of what was happening and tried everything to make it up to him, but then at some point it just becomes pathetic so I gave up, love can make us blind to reality, my ex also said he loved me and wanted to see me, but hasn't contacted me in months and ghosted me after I tried to call. It was clear he didn't care anymore. We can't keep chasing something that we can't have, no matter what. Life doesn't work in our favor most of the time, some people are lucky, and some aren't like myself. Let yourself cry it out and feel the emotions, maybe somewhere down the line, you'll look back and think it's probably for the best. Good luck to you, friend! :)
Thank you so much for sharing your story!
Don't worry, it sounds like you're still in the beginning stages of grief, which is fine, I didn't want to believe my ex didn't care about me anymore either, I kept making up delusions that he would call or return to me one day and apologize for everything that happened but those imaginary scenarios were only hurting me instead of healing. It's okay to cry and feel all these emotions, you're going through a breakup which is one of the most painful experiences every human being goes through in their lives. The thought of my ex being with someone else after we split make me sick too, but gradually that feeling will fade the more time you distract yourself and focus on other things. I try to cope with these feelings through obsessing over my fictional crushes like Dio from Jojo for explain. It helps keep your mind off the negative thoughts for awhile by refocusing your mind on something else.
I think it depends on how strong your self esteem is. With healthy self esteem, you will get over them and realise you don't need them to feel good. So the worse you feel, the more you have to invest in working on your self esteem to feel better.
Yes, my self esteem is really bad. Maybe that's why I've always become a bit dependent on other people. And it gets really, really bad when i have to deal with break ups
It's less to do with self esteem and more to do with having other people to support you. What you do for yourself doesn't really matter unless you have people behind you willing to help. The only common denominator between the majority of people that have been successfully treated for mental health issues is a commited, long term partner, or some other form of social support system.
The issue is that she was my best friend as well, and i only have two other friends who can help me through all of this pain, but i think they are tired of dealing with me. And being alone with my own thoughts it's killing me, I guess it's killing me more than the actual break up but idk honestly.
It's harder when she's an ex, my friend, trust me.
I think both are equally as important. Our worth isn't determined by those around us but it is extremely important to have at least one person to support you and stand up for you and have your side after a traumatic event, as that's the best indicator of healing from it. Xx
