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broth0100

broth0100

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Oct 23, 2023
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Hiiiii…i tend to never get my cuts stitched up because i always thought that that was only necessary for really really deep cuts that wont stop bleeding, but ive noticed over time that my wider scars still cause nerve pain and a generally uncomfortable healing process for me as well as really gnarly scars.

Does anybody have advice for taking care of ur SH scars that r kinda wide but arent rlly imminent emergencies ? Do u go to get them stitched anyway? I would start getting mine stitched but i dont wanna be sent inpatient :(
 
Life_and_Death

Life_and_Death

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still cause nerve pain
i could be wrong because ive never had stitches, and not SH but i have had injuries. i wouldnt think stitching it would solve that. i thought it was mostly just to help with the healing process (hold the skin together). if anything i would think its doing more nerve damage. poking the skin to go in and out so all those little holes on top of he injury you need to heal
granted any of my issues, stitching wouldnt have helped.
i dont cut anywheres near deep enough to require stitches, but my left arm does still have the nerves screwed up (realized that when i was checking a baby bottle and the temp seemed off)
and the nerves in both my feet are screwed, but you cant stitch a rolled ankle and the other one had a toothpick travel through it (+infections).
and ive had other injuries where someone else said "most would get stitches" and i just cleaned the wound and did basic medical care on it. (of course i have a needle phobia and wouldnt get stitches anyway lol. "no nonono its ok i got this" XD)
 
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MidnightCat

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Hiiiii…i tend to never get my cuts stitched up because i always thought that that was only necessary for really really deep cuts that wont stop bleeding, but ive noticed over time that my wider scars still cause nerve pain and a generally uncomfortable healing process for me as well as really gnarly scars.

Does anybody have advice for taking care of ur SH scars that r kinda wide but arent rlly imminent emergencies ? Do u go to get them stitched anyway? I would start getting mine stitched but i dont wanna be sent inpatient :(
I've got a few old sh scars that are pretty deep.

One of them is 17 years old and, sometimes, still hurts a little when it's cold outside, but manageable.

For deep cuts that may not really require real stitches... I used to buy adhesive stitches at the pharmacy, they're not expensive and if you clean the wound they really help to get a smaller scar and a better healing overall.

They may cost you the equivalent of 2 or 3 coffees at max.

Just be sure to really clean the area so they don't infect. An infected sh cut can be really painful and bring a lot of problems, so if you're not sure about it... Go get it stitched.

Remember to buy something to desinfect even the not so deep ones.
 
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supergold#2

supergold#2

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Oct 20, 2024
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so, it's entirely dependent on how deep you're actually cutting (sorry for the colloquial terms) but is it:
skin (bleeds a lot for a second, stops quickly)
if this is the case, clean it with an antiseptic, neosporin if you're the type, and a bandaid, and it should completely dissapear.​
styro (takes a few seconds, sometimes almost a minute to start bleeding, when cleaned you can see subcutaneous fat underneath (which looks like styrofoam, hence the name))
this is when things usually start leaving scars, doesn't need stitches (not sure if surgeons would do it usually), but it's imperative to sanitize, antimicrobial/antibacterial, and keep covered. repeat daily, until healed.​
full fat tissue (cuts are usually wider depending on length, but usually 3-4 as wide as it's predecessor, usually bleeds a slowly for a long while, can see yellow/off white fat bubbles underneath),
this is where most suggest getting stitches. it is possible to take care of at home, but no matter the amount of care, it will most likely scar at least a little. recomend the same as styro, HOWEVER, butterfly bandages are your friend here, apply them underneath you cover bandage as tightly as you can, and change everything out 2-3 times a day, more often if it bleeds excessively or bandages become loose. to help stop initial bleeding to apply bandages, elevate the wound at least 1ft above heart level, and apply HEAVY pressure with a clean and sterile rag. it's gonna hurt like fuck, be warned, usually huets more than getting the wound itself (depending on area). if you are unable to stop the bleeding, you should go to the hospital.​
(there are fucked up methods involving superglue, or dental floss (unflavored) and a sewing needle, but they require some practice to get right, and will definitely scar badly.)​
finally full muscle (cuts are very wide, sometimes as wide as long, completely a toss up whether it soaks everything in blood or doesn't bleed at all, can see red and pink ligaments underneath).
this is a hospital only case unfortunately. it's highly possible nerve damage, internal bleeding, or permanent muscle tissue damage has occured. no home remedy will fully fix this.​
if stranded, and unable to get to a hospital quickly, it's recommended to tie a double tourniquet above the injury, and it WILL feel like you're gonna die if done correctly (you won't, unless you leave it there for hours, in which case, your leg may start to develop minor necrosis, nerve damage, burst cappilaries, or clots)​
ONLY in horrible, "i can't get to the hospital for days because i'm lost in the amazon rainforest" type situations, there are medical kits that you can get after a short class that contain specialiazed wound glue, stitching tools, antibiotics, and a few other emergency tools, however, they usually keep a log of how often you pick them up, but idk if they say anything tbh​
[source: when i lived up in alaska, all of us in upper management of the restaurant had to do the class, learn field wound dressing, and learn how to be really fucking bad at stitching lol]
 
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MidnightCat

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so, it's entirely dependent on how deep you're actually cutting (sorry for the colloquial terms) but is it:
skin (bleeds a lot for a second, stops quickly)
if this is the case, clean it with an antiseptic, neosporin if you're the type, and a bandaid, and it should completely dissapear.​
styro (takes a few seconds, sometimes almost a minute to start bleeding, when cleaned you can see subcutaneous fat underneath (which looks like styrofoam, hence the name))
this is when things usually start leaving scars, doesn't need stitches (not sure if surgeons would do it usually), but it's imperative to sanitize, antimicrobial/antibacterial, and keep covered. repeat daily, until healed.​
full fat tissue (cuts are usually wider depending on length, but usually 3-4 as wide as it's predecessor, usually bleeds a slowly for a long while, can see yellow/off white fat bubbles underneath),
this is where most suggest getting stitches. it is possible to take care of at home, but no matter the amount of care, it will most likely scar at least a little. recomend the same as styro, HOWEVER, butterfly bandages are your friend here, apply them underneath you cover bandage as tightly as you can, and change everything out 2-3 times a day, more often if it bleeds excessively or bandages become loose. to help stop initial bleeding to apply bandages, elevate the wound at least 1ft above heart level, and apply HEAVY pressure with a clean and sterile rag. it's gonna hurt like fuck, be warned, usually huets more than getting the wound itself (depending on area). if you are unable to stop the bleeding, you should go to the hospital.
(there are fucked up methods involving superglue, or dental floss (unflavored) and a sewing needle, but they require some practice to get right, and will definitely scar badly.)​
finally full muscle (cuts are very wide, sometimes as wide as long, completely a toss up whether it soaks everything in blood or doesn't bleed at all, can see red and pink ligaments underneath).
this is a hospital only case unfortunately. it's highly possible nerve damage, internal bleeding, or permanent muscle tissue damage has occured. no home remedy will fully fix this.
if stranded, and unable to get to a hospital quickly, it's recommended to tie a double tourniquet above the injury, and it WILL feel like you're gonna die if done correctly (you won't, unless you leave it there for hours, in which case, your leg may start to develop minor necrosis, nerve damage, burst cappilaries, or clots)
ONLY in horrible, "i can't get to the hospital for days because i'm lost in the amazon rainforest" type situations, there are medical kits that you can get after a short class that contain specialiazed wound glue, stitching tools, antibiotics, and a few other emergency tools, however, they usually keep a log of how often you pick them up, but idk if they say anything tbh​
[source: when i lived up in alaska, all of us in upper management of the restaurant had to do the class, learn field wound dressing, and learn how to be really fucking bad at stitching lol]
That's masterclass.

I wish I had access to something like this 15 years ago.

Thank you for taking your time to write something that useful.
 
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broth0100

broth0100

i’m not in the tide i be under it, Jaws
Oct 23, 2023
170
I've got a few old sh scars that are pretty deep.

One of them is 17 years old and, sometimes, still hurts a little when it's cold outside, but manageable.

For deep cuts that may not really require real stitches... I used to buy adhesive stitches at the pharmacy, they're not expensive and if you clean the wound they really help to get a smaller scar and a better healing overall.

They may cost you the equivalent of 2 or 3 coffees at max.

Just be sure to really clean the area so they don't infect. An infected sh cut can be really painful and bring a lot of problems, so if you're not sure about it... Go get it stitched.

Remember to buy something to desinfect even the not so deep ones.
Thank u for ur help <3 yea i think ill go with something like the adhesive stitches
so, it's entirely dependent on how deep you're actually cutting (sorry for the colloquial terms) but is it:
skin (bleeds a lot for a second, stops quickly)
if this is the case, clean it with an antiseptic, neosporin if you're the type, and a bandaid, and it should completely dissapear.​
styro (takes a few seconds, sometimes almost a minute to start bleeding, when cleaned you can see subcutaneous fat underneath (which looks like styrofoam, hence the name))
this is when things usually start leaving scars, doesn't need stitches (not sure if surgeons would do it usually), but it's imperative to sanitize, antimicrobial/antibacterial, and keep covered. repeat daily, until healed.​
full fat tissue (cuts are usually wider depending on length, but usually 3-4 as wide as it's predecessor, usually bleeds a slowly for a long while, can see yellow/off white fat bubbles underneath),
this is where most suggest getting stitches. it is possible to take care of at home, but no matter the amount of care, it will most likely scar at least a little. recomend the same as styro, HOWEVER, butterfly bandages are your friend here, apply them underneath you cover bandage as tightly as you can, and change everything out 2-3 times a day, more often if it bleeds excessively or bandages become loose. to help stop initial bleeding to apply bandages, elevate the wound at least 1ft above heart level, and apply HEAVY pressure with a clean and sterile rag. it's gonna hurt like fuck, be warned, usually huets more than getting the wound itself (depending on area). if you are unable to stop the bleeding, you should go to the hospital.
(there are fucked up methods involving superglue, or dental floss (unflavored) and a sewing needle, but they require some practice to get right, and will definitely scar badly.)​
finally full muscle (cuts are very wide, sometimes as wide as long, completely a toss up whether it soaks everything in blood or doesn't bleed at all, can see red and pink ligaments underneath).
this is a hospital only case unfortunately. it's highly possible nerve damage, internal bleeding, or permanent muscle tissue damage has occured. no home remedy will fully fix this.
if stranded, and unable to get to a hospital quickly, it's recommended to tie a double tourniquet above the injury, and it WILL feel like you're gonna die if done correctly (you won't, unless you leave it there for hours, in which case, your leg may start to develop minor necrosis, nerve damage, burst cappilaries, or clots)
ONLY in horrible, "i can't get to the hospital for days because i'm lost in the amazon rainforest" type situations, there are medical kits that you can get after a short class that contain specialiazed wound glue, stitching tools, antibiotics, and a few other emergency tools, however, they usually keep a log of how often you pick them up, but idk if they say anything tbh​
[source: when i lived up in alaska, all of us in upper management of the restaurant had to do the class, learn field wound dressing, and learn how to be really fucking bad at stitching lol]
This is sooo useful wow bookmarking this. Butterfly bandages r exactly wat im looking for i think. Thank u so much for typing all this! <3
 
supergold#2

supergold#2

sapphic, suicidal, and stupid
Oct 20, 2024
91
no sweat whatsoever!

however, i will say that there's a decently high chance that this information may be a bit outdated; the town i was in had a hospital with i think 2? or 3? doctors total, and still recorded all of their information onto CDs (instead of an internal network), like, alaska is the boonies dude, i think i learned primitive survival but there's probably a much larger treasure trove of modern information out there lol
 
vira

vira

dont mean to come off rude. i like short convos.
Apr 28, 2025
174
Hiiiii…i tend to never get my cuts stitched up because i always thought that that was only necessary for really really deep cuts that wont stop bleeding, but ive noticed over time that my wider scars still cause nerve pain and a generally uncomfortable healing process for me as well as really gnarly scars.

Does anybody have advice for taking care of ur SH scars that r kinda wide but arent rlly imminent emergencies ? Do u go to get them stitched anyway? I would start getting mine stitched but i dont wanna be sent inpatient :(
you can purchase butterfly adhesives to keep the cuts closed, along with many other helpful products. the website 'selfharmpics' has a lot of important info for self harm (healing, safety, etc), despite what the name might suggest. i wouldn't get them stitched unless they don't stop bleeding/don't scab, but disinfect and see a doc if signs of infection appear. all cuts will suffer nerve damage (though it may vary), because the skin will never be fully the same (its regenerated skin, rather than natural-born). cuts that gape can be stitched at the ER if you feel the need to go, though. please don't try to stitch them on your own, it will run the risk of infection. wishing you well!!
 
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