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helloitsme

Member
May 14, 2021
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If you are really serious about CTB, have you/do you plan on writing a will?
 
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Bedrock48

Bedrock48

Dreadful damage, dreadful destiny
Feb 1, 2021
540
Not an official one since I worry it'll seem a little suspicious but I've written up a document of what I want doing with belongings and money. There's also a small draft of funeral plans etc. When the dates set I'll leave these visible in my lounge along with organ donation paperwork and anything else important.
 
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deadverysoon

so f****ing ready
Aug 19, 2021
216
yes - im finished with all. ready to ctb.
 
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Ironweed

Ironweed

Nauseated.
Nov 9, 2019
326
I don't have sufficient assets for it to be worthwhile. In my case, the laws of intestacy will be sufficient to divide up what I own.

I strongly recommend anyone writing a will either do your research or pay for a lawyer. Wills can be disqualified and disregarded in certain cases of mental illness or even if they're improperly filed or prepared. (Some states allow a handwritten or "holographic" will, even without witnesses, most do not, that sort of thing.
 
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316

Student
Aug 3, 2021
103
I would have liked to but it would look suspicious, I would need witnesses to sign it. I have written what I would like to happen to go with my note when it's time
 
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Sebuet

Member
Jul 9, 2021
88
Don't own much anyway
 
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helloitsme

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May 14, 2021
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I don't have sufficient assets for it to be worthwhile. In my case, the laws of intestacy will be sufficient to divide up what I own.

I strongly recommend anyone writing a will either do your research or pay for a lawyer. Wills can be disqualified and disregarded in certain cases of mental illness or even if they're improperly filed or prepared. (Some states allow a handwritten or "holographic" will, even without witnesses, most do not, that sort of thing.
interesting. i own an apartment but the mortgage is not fully paid. i worry about the complications that will leave for my family.
 
ClownMe

ClownMe

Don't Cry for Me, I'm Already Dead
Apr 7, 2021
20,561
I dont know what the process is for making a will in Australia but ill have to look into it. Ive got a fair bit of money in the bank and i dont want any of my family getting their hands on it once I ctb.
 
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collyzhang

早他媽想走了
Oct 4, 2019
14
It won't work for me because no one will even look at it. I hope when I die, I die. The rest of the world should just move on and not a second of grief for me.
 
Deadlyroses

Deadlyroses

Sad Millennial
Mar 28, 2021
119
Don't need one. I'm single and childless. Because of the intestate succession laws in my state, everything I own will automatically go to my parents, as they are my "next of kin". Which is what I want.
 
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BrokenLine

Experienced
Jul 13, 2019
255
I don't really have anything worthwhile to need a will,
 
PinkSakura

PinkSakura

Rip Flower I'll never forget you </3 我想你花
Feb 8, 2021
137
Tried to, then I realised that I can't afford a will lol
 
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Versailles

Versailles

Enlightened
Oct 1, 2020
1,647
I have nothing to leave as an inheritance, besides the laws of my country are strange, you cannot be cremated if you do CTB
 
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sadpinky

Stargazer
Jun 10, 2021
202
I decided on voice recording on my phone. I feel like this way if needed they can replay it hearing my voice laugh and just ramble about how much I loved them rather than imagining my voice through a note
 
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ryaan

ryaan

Member
Jun 20, 2021
15
yes, i edit it now and then but for the most part it is all set, along with my funeral wishes.
 
Apricity

Apricity

Wizard
Jul 27, 2021
642
I would have liked to but it would look suspicious, I would need witnesses to sign it. I have written what I would like to happen to go with my note when it's time
You can go to a notary for that
Tried to, then I realised that I can't afford a will lol
Google free wills, they are just as legal.
 
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Marktheghost

Marktheghost

Paragon
Feb 20, 2020
911
Yes but I couldn't even find 1 person that cared about me enough to witness it, so it's probably not even worth the paper it's written on!
 
Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
4,852
I dont know what the process is for making a will in Australia but ill have to look into it. Ive got a fair bit of money in the bank and i dont want any of my family getting their hands on it once I ctb.

It probably varies by state, but a will needs to be legally watertight to avoid being contested. At least in Vic, everything goes to next of kin (parents, children, whatever) by default if there is no will. To avoid this, it would be worth paying $700 or whatever for a basic Slater and Gordon (or similar) will. I think it can be done online.
 
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Sra_TZ

Sra_TZ

Walking Disaster
Mar 6, 2021
65
It probably varies by state, but a will needs to be legally watertight to avoid being contested. At least in Vic, everything goes to next of kin (parents, children, whatever) by default if there is no will. To avoid this, it would be worth paying $700 or whatever for a basic Slater and Gordon (or similar) will. I think it can be done online.
Thanks a lot for this information. I had some similar queries regarding wills in Australia. I look to avoid the part about everything passing on to "next of kin", so I'll probably opt for the alternative method.
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ClownMe

ClownMe

Don't Cry for Me, I'm Already Dead
Apr 7, 2021
20,561
It probably varies by state, but a will needs to be legally watertight to avoid being contested. At least in Vic, everything goes to next of kin (parents, children, whatever) by default if there is no will. To avoid this, it would be worth paying $700 or whatever for a basic Slater and Gordon (or similar) will. I think it can be done online.
So if I make a will with Slater and Gordon online it can't be contested by my family?
 
Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
4,852
interesting. i own an apartment but the mortgage is not fully paid. i worry about the complications that will leave for my family.
Similar situation here. Not sure if it's the same in your area, but in Australia the debts do get passed on to whomever the estate goes to. I've got enough superannuation that it would cover the remainder, so I've drawn up a document with instructions saying as much. Alternatively, the recipient may need to maintain mortgage repayments (perhaps letting a tenant rent the apartment and cover those costs) or they could sell it and keep the net returns.

Another point that I wanted to mention: doing a legal will at any stage of life (assuming there are any assets to speak of) is perfectly legitimate. It is not only something done by people expecting to pass away soon.

And another point, there are often cheap will kits available at post offices and such; these are not recommended. Going through lawyers is important unless you really know what you're doing.
So if I make a will with Slater and Gordon online it can't be contested by my family?
I'm not an expert and I haven't actually gone through the process, but I would say that it would be vastly harder to contest it if it has been drafted by professionals. Law firms are also in the business of helping people who want to contest wills, so they win either way!
 
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FailureGirl

FailureGirl

lost in limbo...
Jul 5, 2021
133
Yes I finished it and had it witnessed and signed last month.
 
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A_miStake_of_NATURE

A_miStake_of_NATURE

I wish no one had to CTB..........
Aug 14, 2020
703
I own shit!! So no, I haven't. I don't need one :))
 
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sadpinky

Stargazer
Jun 10, 2021
202
I own shit!! So no, I haven't. I don't need one :))
A will goes far beyond your belongings but also what to do with your body and how to handle the issues that arise after in your absence, I would recommend one. My partner didn't leave so much as a not and the amount of stress and anguish that's put on everyone could've been avoided
 
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ItsTimeToExit

Live to die another day
Jul 20, 2021
99
A will goes far beyond your belongings but also what to do with your body and how to handle the issues that arise after in your absence, I would recommend one. My partner didn't leave so much as a not and the amount of stress and anguish that's put on everyone could've been avoided
A small note on the "... what to do with your body ..."

The direction in your Will concerning the disposal of your body only has moral effect; it has no legal effect. In other words, your executors will be under no obligation to follow your direction. However, by putting this in your Will, it is likely that your executors will follow this where possible.
 
Seiba

Seiba

Mage
Jun 13, 2021
505
I don't have sufficient assets for it to be worthwhile. In my case, the laws of intestacy will be sufficient to divide up what I own.

I strongly recommend anyone writing a will either do your research or pay for a lawyer. Wills can be disqualified and disregarded in certain cases of mental illness or even if they're improperly filed or prepared. (Some states allow a handwritten or "holographic" will, even without witnesses, most do not, that sort of thing.
Pretty much same case here. Nothing of value to give out in a will.
 

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