Discussion Have you ever talked to someone who made you think for even a second "this is fate" or "true love"

[Pure Vanilla]

if you did how did it end up for you?

 

[unwantedleftovers]

they ended up breaking me down over 8 years. addicted to porn and every woman but me. gaslit me the entire time about it... then i found out the truth on their hard drives. we were engaged for 4 years.

 

[Pure Vanilla]

they ended up breaking me down over 8 years. addicted to porn and every woman but me. gaslit me the entire time about it... then i found out the truth on their hard drives. we were engaged for 4 years.

Sounds like a complete piece of shit

 

[Forever Sleep]

My former best friend felt like my soul mate. We eventually moved away from one another and their focus became their family.

 

[Forveleth]

I did. It turns out they were a borderline narcissistic, emotionally abusive asshole and are the reason I am here.

 

[itsgone2]

I did. It turns out they were a borderline narcissistic, emotionally abusive asshole and are the reason I am here.

I was that person to someone.
The biggest mistake I made
It was within my control. I know part of me with me this way, but it was within my control.
I'm so sorry it happened to you
For the person I heard I wish I could take it back so much. I wish I could make their life what it should've been.

 

[voc_89]

My first ever girlfriend. That was in my 2nd year of uni. I was starved for love then and she made me feel alive, like a person again, like i had purpose. My being was to become a man that she deserves. A man who would go on to propose, house, kids, etc. At that time my grades were atrocious. When you starved for love why even fight in this life. After she came into my life I went to being an B/A student. Hitting the gym. Working on improving my image and social standing, etc. Fast forward, she broke up with me the week before finals in my last term of uni. hahahaha. i failed every exam and was at risk of being kicked. Since then, never again have I fallen in love. That was almost 16 years ago

 

[|nobody|]

Yes, she's gone now

 

[Abacab]

I did, a few times. First one was when I was young and naturally a bit more stupid. It just didn't work out.

Second one did a complete 180° in the way they treated me after a CTB attempt. It's been a few years.

Last one was almost surreal. I had long given up on "this is fate" fantasies regarding people but I ended up meeting someone who was so similar to me it was uncanny. Similar history, similar interests, similar sense of humor, we even often said the same thing at the same time totally umprompted. If I was a bit more unstable you could make me believe this person was a complete fabrication from my head. Alas, they also didn't last long in my life. In just a few weeks they just decided I wasn't worth having around anymore.