imstillhungry
Student
- Nov 19, 2019
- 109
I've been confiding in my ex (recently broken up, it was a toxic relationship but we still love each other) about my depression and that I'm going to ctb soon. He's the only person I have left who I love and trust, and technically I don't even 'have him left' since he's an ex.
I don't know why I confide in him about this stuff. It's not for sympathy or attention, nor for him to tell me not to do it. I guess it just felt good to have someone to talk to about this in real life.
At first he was sympathetic and there for me. 2 weeks later he says he doesn't want to talk to me anymore because I'm dragging him down and it's hurting him to think that I'm going to ctb.
Maybe I'm being selfish in my way of thinking, but would he abandon me in my last days if I were sick with, say, cancer? No. Yet it's ok to abandon a suicidal person in their last days just because it makes you feel bad? Guess what pal, I feel even worse.
I feel very selfish now that I've written this, but I've been selfless and put everyone else above me my entire life. Why can't someone else do that for me for once, especially in my last days...
I just wish I didn't have to die knowing not a single soul on this planet gives a fuck about me, especially because I was always such a loving selfless person and tried my hardest to be there for everyone.
I don't know why I confide in him about this stuff. It's not for sympathy or attention, nor for him to tell me not to do it. I guess it just felt good to have someone to talk to about this in real life.
At first he was sympathetic and there for me. 2 weeks later he says he doesn't want to talk to me anymore because I'm dragging him down and it's hurting him to think that I'm going to ctb.
Maybe I'm being selfish in my way of thinking, but would he abandon me in my last days if I were sick with, say, cancer? No. Yet it's ok to abandon a suicidal person in their last days just because it makes you feel bad? Guess what pal, I feel even worse.
I feel very selfish now that I've written this, but I've been selfless and put everyone else above me my entire life. Why can't someone else do that for me for once, especially in my last days...
I just wish I didn't have to die knowing not a single soul on this planet gives a fuck about me, especially because I was always such a loving selfless person and tried my hardest to be there for everyone.