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GrassFields
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- May 11, 2020
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Hi all,
I was diagnosed with a progressively terminal neurological condition last year and am weighing the pros and cons of CTB on my own v.s. medically assisted dying (MAID). I have openly discussed my wishes with my wife, family doctor, and medical specialists, and each have their own opinion on assisted dying. Legally, I would foreseeably need to be within one year of death to qualify for MAID, but unfortunately that does not look appealing to me. I would need to suffer for years in a totally bedridden state with breathing machines and an optical keyboard, draining our savings in the process requiring around the clock care. If I CTB earlier on my own terms, I maintain my dignity, save my family financial drain, and am not burdened with the suffering my condition can result in.
Has anyone discussed CTB with their family or spouse? What were their thoughts and opinions? My wife is certainly very upset at the thought of my passing, but understands my perspective for wanting to maintain a quality of life and my own independence.
I was diagnosed with a progressively terminal neurological condition last year and am weighing the pros and cons of CTB on my own v.s. medically assisted dying (MAID). I have openly discussed my wishes with my wife, family doctor, and medical specialists, and each have their own opinion on assisted dying. Legally, I would foreseeably need to be within one year of death to qualify for MAID, but unfortunately that does not look appealing to me. I would need to suffer for years in a totally bedridden state with breathing machines and an optical keyboard, draining our savings in the process requiring around the clock care. If I CTB earlier on my own terms, I maintain my dignity, save my family financial drain, and am not burdened with the suffering my condition can result in.
Has anyone discussed CTB with their family or spouse? What were their thoughts and opinions? My wife is certainly very upset at the thought of my passing, but understands my perspective for wanting to maintain a quality of life and my own independence.