I'd prefer not having a funeral, I don't want there to be too much sadness surrounding my death. But I suppose it can't be avoided and I also understand that some people will want some kind of memorial service, if only for some kind of closure. In that case maybe the MerDer Theme from Grey's Anatomy. It's a small, simple piano melody but for some reason it's always really stuck with me ever since I first watched the show some 10+ years ago. It has something strangely haunting about it and as much as the show has flown off the rails like it has wings in more recent years, I will always fondly remember the early seasons. The main character Meredith I could always relate to a lot, she and I are similar in many ways and for a while she gave me hope that dark and twisted weirdos like us can maybe find happiness after all.
Sorry for the rant. Link to the tune is below if anyone would like to listen.