Fucking Wife continues to message me after taking out restraining order.

[TheLastSacrifice]

I've reported this to the court. Just told she may continue to contact me as much as she wants but I may not respond. How exactly is this okay? If I was doing this to her would it not be harassment? Im getting beyond pissed off as many can probably see from my unacceptable posts at times. What do I do? Other than kill myself. I cannot afford a divorce lawyer at the moment I'm still reeling from losing my home and vehicle to her. Have to cover the basics before I can get a lawyer.
Im fucking tired of this and if the courts won't do their fucking job I am going to snap at some point.b

 

[faust]

It is harassment, and you are not obliged to reply for sure.
You did right that you reported. Maybe it does not apply to this case, but some people find it funny and necessary to do such things.
Wishing you a major strength!

 

[Ghost2211]

For sure a report and save everything she sends to you

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

I have. They know. They don't care! That's my whole point. There is zero logic behind any of this. If I did this to her even without an order in place how would they treat me?!

It is harassment, and you are not obliged to reply for sure.
You did right that you reported. Maybe it does not apply to this case, but some people find it funny and necessary to do such things.
Wishing you a major strength!

Well I've been saying some stupid shit I don't really mean lately. A lot. Many ridiculous outbursts. But this is why. Im losing it.

 

[Jean Améry]

I would take down the screenshot or at least black out personal details. You can be identified this way.

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

What exactly are they protecting her from? What does she need protection from. I moved 90 fucking miles away to get away from her. What is the logic of this?!

I would take down the screenshot or at least black out personal details. You can be identified this way.

Identified for what?! I don't care.

What exactly are they protecting her from? What does she need protection from. I moved 90 fucking miles away to get away from her. What is the logic of this?!

Identified for what?! I don't care.

I haven't broken the law. Nor do I care anyway.
What are they going to do? Show up and try to bring me to the hospital. Lol. . I don't know what the outcome of this will be but I can assure all of you that I won't be going to any hospital with them one way or the other.

 

[Jean4]

File a police report.

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

File a police report.

I called them. They won't take a report. How do I get them to?

 

[Jean4]

I called them. They won't take a report. How do I get them to?

Walk into the police station and say I want to file a report. They cannot turn you down. It is against the law.

 

[Deleted member 14386]

What exactly are they protecting her from? What does she need protection from. I moved 90 fucking miles away to get away from her. What is the logic of this?!

Identified for what?! I don't care.

I haven't broken the law. Nor do I care anyway.
What are they going to do? Show up and try to bring me to the hospital. Lol. . I don't know what the outcome of this will be but I can assure all of you that I won't be going to any hospital with them one way or the other.

No, random people will collect your information and sell it, someone else can then use your identity or just fuck with your life. Anything you do, they can find out. I highly recommend blacking out all details, at least the last names

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

Walk into the police station and say I want to file a report. They cannot turn you down. It is against the law.

Okay. I'll try that.

No, they will collect your information and sell it, someone else can then use your identity or just fuck with your life. Anything you do, they can find out. I highly recommend blacking out all details, at least the last names

Not my social security number or anything. Just a name.

 

[Deleted member 14386]

Okay. I'll try that.

Not my social security number or anything. Just a name.

And the thing, but you cleared the exif data at least. I can tell your in the US probably but that's it. Fair enough you know your stuff lol

 

[benjaminbusdriver]

Tell her she can have her divorce but you have no money for the lawyer, so she has to pay for it. You have no other option at the moment so she has to make it work. Maybe she can sell the car she took from you!?!

Save all her texts and messages. Tell her to stop communication and if she harasses you again, you're going post it on facebook, email etc... If that doesn't stop her, nothing will.

 

[MissingIt]

Identified for what?! I don't care.

I don't know your situation, but the fact that you are posting on this forum could very well be used against you in further court proceedings.

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

Tell her she can have her divorce but you have no money for the lawyer, so she has to pay for it. You have no other option at the moment so she has to make it work. Maybe she can sell the car she took from you!?!

Save all her texts and messages. Tell her to stop communication and if she harasses you again, you're going post it on facebook, email etc... If that doesn't stop her, nothing will.

Im not supposed to be telling her anything whatsoever. No contact through any medium. This was her request.

Im not supposed to be telling her anything whatsoever. No contact through any medium. This was her request.

If I did this it would be considered by this court to be a violation of her protection order, a violation of my probation and harassment.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

Been here and done this. Block her on every means of communication and delete all contacts! Change all of your passwords and secure your bank account ASAP!

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

And the email addy, but you cleared the exif data at least. I can tell your in the US probably but that's it. Fair enough you know your stuff lol

Courts can use anything I post anywhere. I haven't posted anything I don't want them to know. Im really not afraid of them. I comply because I want to be a good citizen and not meltdown and explode into a troublemaker; a loose cannon. Im teetering on failure but I'm still trying believe it or not, despite some crazy posts.

Been here and done this. Block her on every means of communication and delete all contacts! Change all of your passwords and secure your bank account ASAP!

Bank account secured. Fist thing I did when I got out. A friend loaned me money because I had no access to my funds at the time due to having to secure my funds. I actually had my own money. Just had to wait while they changed my account.

Been here and done this. Block her on every means of communication and delete all contacts! Change all of your passwords and secure your bank account ASAP!

Yeah she was using my main Google account that she had found out my password to to get in, change the password and lock me out. Then used that to get into every message app I have and was even messaging my own friends as me and invading my conversations as me and going off on me as myself. Lmao.
I get it. She could use my posts on here and say "see! Look at how crazy he is!". But I wasn't acting like this before this happened and I wasn't acting like this right away after. It was a long slow process of whittling away at my sanity over time.
I find it hard to believe that other people wouldn't go postal under this crap.

 

[CC123]

Yeah she was using my main Google account that she had found out my password to to get in, change the password and lock me out.

Tragic. No free advice to offer. Just tragic.

 

[Beautiful_Disgrace]

I see someone already mentioned blocking her. If I were you I would make new accounts for everything possible as well.

Are you communicating with her still? Do you react to her when she makes contact?

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

Tragic. No free advice to offer. Just tragic.

Well my perpetual victim mentality isn't getting me anywhere. Nevertheless, I am really hurt and pissed off. I miss my daughter and stepson as well as my cunt wife and i feel like a mad dog at times. Everything that can go wrong seems to. Even my nice google phone is starting to act slow and the battery just drains so fast now. Ran out of contacts, she has the car, I'm supposed to be at all these places scattered 90 miles away from each other, probation and parole seems to want to control every aspect of my life and for what exactly? Showing back up to my own home? Very fucking stupid. Probation officer doesn't want to discuss any of that. Just ownership of what I did wrong. Im all about talking ownership right now. Some of my statements have been ridiculous and irresponsible but as far as probation and parole is concerned, what exactly did I do wrong? Bc honestly I do not know. I know. I know. I broke their dumbass exparte order. But I keep asking myself "What did I actually do wrong?"

I see someone already mentioned blocking her. If I were you I would make new accounts for everything possible as well.

Are you communicating with her still? Do you react to her when she makes contact?

If I respond to her I could face 180 days in jail. No I don't respond. She's blocked in all but Gmail. I ignore her emails.

 

[Beautiful_Disgrace]

If I respond to her I could face 180 days in jail. No I don't respond. She's blocked in all but Gmail. I ignore her emails.

Is there anyway you can contact one of her family members, a mutual friend, show them the screenshots and ask them to reason with her?

sorry, I just have no idea what else you could possibly do for yourself in this situation. I wish I could be of more help.

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

Is there anyway you can contact one of her family members, a mutual friend, show them the screenshots and ask them to reason with her?

sorry, I just have no idea what else you could possibly do for yourself in this situation. I wish I could be of more help.

The judge explicitly forbid 3rd party contact of any kind. He seemed to think he was helping me somehow in this process. He explained everything in detail.

The judge explicitly forbid 3rd party contact of any kind. He seemed to think he was helping me somehow in this process. He explained everything in detail.

It's okay. Man even attorneys are giving me non-answers.
It's okay. I will be gone soon. Within 3 months. It just breaks my heart to leave her behind without a father. I have thought long and hard though. Im out. Im sorry for leaving her behind but I have to go. I know for security reasons....blah blah....I'll take them down.
Can't do this anymore. 6 months. Night after night. It's time for me to go.
Let them find my identity. I'll be dead by then anyway
Names Mike. Honestly, they can suck my dick. Im not doing anything I don't want to do. Let them find me.

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

I'm sorry you are going through this. I don't have any good advice but you may want to remove the pics … especially of your daughter.

 

[Lethe]

Whoa, real talk for a sec-- remove the pics of your daughter, for real. I mean no disrespect as I know you're in a bad state of mind, but that's incredibly irresponsible and not fair/safe to her.

 

[Jean Améry]

Courts can use anything I post anywhere. I haven't posted anything I don't want them to know. Im really not afraid of them.

You're jeopardizing your own safety (you're making it rather easy to prove suicidal intent, aka 'dangerousness to self') and if you do decide to live for your daughter (which I think you should) you're endangering your chances of getting (joint) custody.

Many people view this site every day, many of them pro-lifers who might report you to the authorities.

I know you're in a bad place right now and I sympathize but being macho will mean nothing when you're being hauled off to the nuthouse. Nor when the opposing lawyer destroys your reputation in court by linking you to this site and using your own statements to 'prove' you're suicidal. It's a sad state of affairs but it's reality.

 

[autumnal]

@TheLastSacrifice, pull yourself the fuck together and delete those photos and anything else that could be used against you in a court case, like comments about not being taken to a hospital one way or another etc. Preferably this whole entire thread if the mods will make an exception for you.

This is a very understanding community, but people here are going to find it hard to want to help you if you keep making rash comments or actions that show a complete lack of desire to help yourself.

 

[Deleted member 14386]

The judge explicitly forbid 3rd party contact of any kind. He seemed to think he was helping me somehow in this process. He explained everything in detail.

It's okay. Man even attorneys are giving me non-answers.
It's okay. I will be gone soon. Within 3 months. It just breaks my heart to leave her behind without a father. I have thought long and hard though. Im out. Im sorry for leaving her behind but I have to go. I know for security reasons....blah blah....I'll take them down.
Can't do this anymore. 6 months. Night after night. It's time for me to go.
Let them find my identity. I'll be dead by then anyway
Names Mike. Honestly, they can suck my dick. Im not doing anything I don't want to do. Let them find me.

I can't find you, tineye searched 20 billion pages and found nothing for any of the pics. Metadata is scrubbed too.
I do not approve of this and don't see what good could come of it. However all I know is you are in the US and name is Mike. Someone might recognize you but there is a slim possibility of that.
My main worry is court (also other people like pro-lifers may use these pics for their social media, spread the word that 'this man is dangerous!' I know that's not true, but bro you need to think here), you need to take precautions to make sure you are not connected to this site if you want to do this stuff. VPN's tor etc.
Again I highly recommend you delete this whole thread or at least remove the photos. What if she finds them after?

 

[TheLastSacrifice]

@TheLastSacrifice, pull yourself the fuck together and delete those photos and anything else that could be used against you in a court case, like comments about not being taken to a hospital one way or another etc. Preferably this whole entire thread if the mods will make an exception for you.

This is a very understanding community, but people here are going to find it hard to want to help you if you keep making rash comments or actions that show a complete lack of desire to help yourself.

I didn't come here for help. There is no help. I am a very smart person actually when it comes to common sense, street smarts, incriminating yourself, etcetera. I mean I don't mean it an arrogant way is if there's no holes in anything I do. But my point being is there is no help. if the mods find my behavior to be inappropriate then they can take me off here any of you can message them anytime and request that. About this I won't take offense not that it matters if I did. As far as the person mentioning "real talk," this it's all been real talk for me some of it venting but all real. I kind of think some people are playing around with suicide talk on here. I know many are serious I've seen a few pass during my time on the site but many seem to just be talkers. I'm not. and I don't think me saying no one's dragging me off to the f****** hospital is irresponsible talk at this point I'm done. It's the truth I'll tell the f****** judge the same thing then no one's taking me to the hospital I complied I'm seeing a shrink I'm on meds I don't care! I'm not going to base all my behavior around this f***** up kangaroo Court s*** anymore. I won't break their laws. Our laws. My laws. That help keep my kids safe. But I'm not going to hide behind a false identity and not speak my mind I've had enough you all can look at it as irresponsible you can look at it however you want but at the end of the day I'm going to stand my f****** ground. I'm not going to hash this out in court through a divorce case in battle over custody in this fuckedupshit the way that everyone else does. my wife is a terror and even if I could get partial custody it's going to be a living hell for the rest of my life.
For all of you that think this is wrong and immoral I understand your opinion there's this button down below that says report. Feel free to press that button.

I can't find you, tineye searched 20 billion pages and found nothing for any of the pics. Metadata is scrubbed too.
I do not approve of this and don't see what good could come of it. However all I know is you are in the US and name is Mike. Someone might recognize you but there is a slim possibility of that.
My main worry is court (also other people like pro-lifers may use these pics for their social media, spread the word that 'this man is dangerous!' I know that's not true, but bro you need to think here), you need to take precautions to make sure you are not connected to this site if you want to do this stuff. VPN's tor etc.
Again I highly recommend you delete this whole thread or at least remove the photos. What if she finds them after?

if she finds them after that she will know the truth about her mother that she's going to find out from her brother anyway it's some point and it will just be more reinforced.
I think most other mentality behind a lot of you that are warning me is intelligent and prudent. When I was in the military and also when I'm dealing with physical dangers I think like this. I understand. But you're not listening you're just seeing someone come unhinged. That's not it I am choosing this. I have had enough of playing the game I'm not going to play the game anymore do you understand?
If I don't want to go to a hospital I don't have to go. If you tell me I have to go and I tell you I'm not going the ball's in your court. What will you choose to do? I'm not making threats or saying anything illegal.
It's kind of the same thing you know with God. I reject God. I reject Christianity Islam Judaism Buddhism all of it. Buddhism would probably be my most favorite if I believed in any of it. but just as the Christians tell me I'm rejecting God who is throwing me a life preserver in the form of Jesus Christ. I don't believe in Jesus Christ. So if I stand before God and he turns out to be real he has a choice he can send me the hell he's God. I choose not to go to hell. Ball's in his court. What will he do? just a metaphor here you know but it's another problem that I'm dealing with. Being bombarded with Christianity b******* 24/7.
S*** that's one thing I'm glad to get away from with my wife. Going around preaching like she's a Christian yet doesn't follow any of it and throws out any of it that's inconvenient. That's how the court is behaving.