Because the best paying jobs require degrees. Trust me as someone without a degree. The pressure to go to school and earn a degree (often doesn't matter what degree as long as you have it) infiltrates every facet of modern life. Esp economic stability. Even the lowest paid crap jobs demand a degree now. It's asinine.
That's brainwashing bullshit the assholes selling ridiculously overpriced degrees want everybody to believe. A week after my girlfriend clinched her PharmD, she wrote me a bitter angry email lamenting, "We've all been sold a bill of goods. I am looking over my shoulder, the same person I was before, after supposedly achieving the pinnacle of academic achievement. All I've done is given others more of an opportunity to own my time and life. Now I'll be working until I die, etcetera, etcetera..."
For whatever it's worth, all of the financially independent employees I've known were in sales, a field where a degree actually counts AGAINST you, and the job interview is 100% of the opportunity to get hired.
Getting truly wealthy though means being your own boss, whereas degrees teach you to work for somebody else. Universities teach students to think in terms of limitations, not possibilities.
When my step nephew was a boy, he took apart my brother's computer to figure it out. He never went to college. Today, he's got a family, drives a Cadillac, and makes a fine living working for Spectrum, still in his mid 20's, and with no student debt. My sister didn't even graduate high school, yet she's got over a million in her retirement fund. The girl I grew up next door to never went to college, yet earned millions as an executive for Avon. The husband of my sister's best friend is nearing retirement as a corporate executive in Geneva despite never attending college. A boy I grew up with owns and operates a massive marketing company despite blowing off the completion of his degree in economics despite being one credit short. (He quipped to me, "Why should I bother? To give myself a raise? Bull fucking shit!")
Back when I attended bartending school, an assistant manager there with a couple degrees admitted to me, "All a degree does is tell an employer you can 'Play the game.' In other words, a degree is nothing more than a glorified ass kisser. Don't be an ass kisser!" (Incidentally, the founder and owner of that bartending school was a B 24 Liberator bomber pilot in WW II who never bothered going to college. I knew a number of combat veterans who were self made millionaires. What the hell did they have to be afraid of after those youthful experiences?)
During this internet day and age, a degree means less than it has at any time since before the GI Bill caused it to be an artificial job requirement.
Having a degree only matters to those who think it matters. The ones who know it doesn't matter are the ones who rule the world. (Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg...)
Society is the one who puts on the pressure, so do the parents and the people hiring-who a lot of the time require you to have some type of degree, even if said degree is useless in that particular job. Times may have changed for the lucky entrepreneur or "influencer" (horrible), but not for your everyday person.
I was unable to complete even the usual minimum of education because of certain circumstances...and cruelty because of those circumstances which pushed me to have to leave that environment.
Because of that I lack a lot of knowledge that people my age have usually attained by now. (In its place, just an excruciatingly deep understanding of pain and suffering.)
When someone asks about where you went to school or what you studied (which seems to be a go-to small talk opener), my truthful answer defines my supposed intelligence in their eyes. They look down on me.
I don't have time to explain my entire life story to them and they don't exactly have the minds to listen or comprehend it. People are shallow, they take one look at you, get you to say a few words, and that's the impression that will forever permeate their brain. It's irritating and invalidating. Humans are always on the hunt to bask in their own superiority.
Also, the process to get into certain colleges, especially the more selective ones, is much more preferential to younger people and those who stayed the narrow path from high school without taking a gap year, never mind a gap decade or more.
Taking classes as a middle aged adult only works for a small amount of people vs the majority. Older people also have a tougher time getting hired, even more so if they're just starting out on what they plan to make some type of paying job/'career'.
So I get the pressure of any school environment, both academically and socially. Add other issues to it, and it's like a ticking time bomb. A bonafide pressure cooker.
I burned out fast despite my high investment
in academia because of issues unrelated to the actual schooling, but rather the school and the student body itself.
My parents still blame me to this day for that one too, they still get on my case, they don't understand it is impossible to waste energy you don't have on pursuing something that will only matter if other problems are solved first. Problems that made me lethargic and listless with no ounce of life or hope, all of which have gotten far worse and more permanent with time and other events.
Sometimes I forget about this particular aspect of loss and lack of opportunity in my life because I am so overwhelmed with other things, but threads like this remind me that just because I didn't get a degree or two (not even close), I will be put to death with many assuming me somewhat stupid in comparison to them, an unattractive,"mentally ill", simple minded individual. How awful, how erasing..just makes me want to laugh out of insanity in the face of the projected narrative they will write over me.
Funny. People are afraid to tell me they have degrees, because they're afraid I will look down on them as mindless brain dead ass kissers. (They're right. My PharmD friend texted me a few months ago to please stop making her feel like she was being slammed for having gone to college. I had to remind her that I helped her get her doctorate, and that all the degrees who shit on me when I was growing up earned my unconditional disrespect. That also automatically goes for EVERY degree who EVER looks down on you in any way for not going to college. Unlike all of them, you have a mind of your own.)
I have known a few degrees who actually are legitimately great people BTW, who honestly look down on nobody. (Incidentally, Donald Trump is one of them. I never saw him treat a server, housekeeper, taxi driver or other working class person with anything but courtesy and respect. This is a guy who hates war so much he goes to Andrews Air Force Base to receive the bodies of killed service members personally. To him, they're actual human beings, not statistics like they were to LBJ and McNamara during Vietnam. Fuck the negative image the news media wants to paint of him. In real life, he's a good guy, and I encountered him enough times in 2015 and 2016 to have a baseline. Hillary Clinton on the other hand is a POS, as is Kamala Harris. In person, Joe Biden and Bill Clinton were also all right in my experience, although Biden's badly slipped now mentally, for what my first hand observations are worth.)
As a follow up to what I just posted about Trump, my PharmD friend has a number of friends and relatives in government service, and she texted me that Trump changed federal jobs to be skill based versus college based, no small consideration given the fact the federal government is the nation's largest employer. The elitist media is crammed with degrees, which is why they hate him so much.