F#minor
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- Aug 18, 2020
- 22
A very dear friend and housemate CaughtTB August first. Three of his friends and I discovered his body.
The descriptive power of words fails to express how this has destroyed me. I couldn't eat for the first several days. I would try to bring food to my mouth and I would feel like throwing up. Several days went by, I was finally able to eat something, but I threw it up. I'm able to keep food down now, but I still feel like I'm going to throw up. When I turn into this neighborhood I feel that I'm going to throw up. My stomach is an acid bath.
I'm just so sorry he was suffering like this, and that I couldn't bring him any relief from it. I hate myself and can never forgive myself for not being able to do better for him.
I know that he was a member of this site, but I don't know what his profile name was. My brain is performing mental gymnastics to find closure to this, but nothing comes.
Has anyone here been through this? How can I better love someone that it penetrates their sadness? I'm at a total loss and feel like catching the midnight train myself if I am that useless to someone I love. Whatever perspective you might feel like offering, including criticism of this post or the way I'm thinking about this, is welcome. Show me how I can be better.
The descriptive power of words fails to express how this has destroyed me. I couldn't eat for the first several days. I would try to bring food to my mouth and I would feel like throwing up. Several days went by, I was finally able to eat something, but I threw it up. I'm able to keep food down now, but I still feel like I'm going to throw up. When I turn into this neighborhood I feel that I'm going to throw up. My stomach is an acid bath.
I'm just so sorry he was suffering like this, and that I couldn't bring him any relief from it. I hate myself and can never forgive myself for not being able to do better for him.
I know that he was a member of this site, but I don't know what his profile name was. My brain is performing mental gymnastics to find closure to this, but nothing comes.
Has anyone here been through this? How can I better love someone that it penetrates their sadness? I'm at a total loss and feel like catching the midnight train myself if I am that useless to someone I love. Whatever perspective you might feel like offering, including criticism of this post or the way I'm thinking about this, is welcome. Show me how I can be better.