I have what I need to ctb. I just need to pull trigger and hopefully begin a new and better journey. What do most people do? I live alone with my dog so I need some advice there on how to make sure she's not going to be left alone in the event that I'm not found immediately. My ex always said that he would take her if anything would happen to prevent me from caring for her. Should I schedule a text for a few minutes later and if I don't do it or not successful I can delete it? I would do an email but I am afraid that he wouldn't see it or end up in spam folder.
Should I type something up for what happens to my belongings and what is left in my banking account? If I don't then who has the most rights to it? I have a lot of valuable electronics and computer equipment and stuff.
What is your method? You mention in your post what would happen in the event your body isn't found for a while, so I was wondering how you're planning to end it. Either way, as others have mentioned in different threads/posts, you can try setting up Boomerang for your email and set a time when the emails are to be sent, ie enough time after you've passed but not so much time your dog is alone for days or weeks.
I'm planning to use Boomerang myself, so my body doesn't rot in this apartment. Though, I suspect after a missed appointment, my therapist would call my sister and my sister would attempt to reach me. My not answering the phone would set things in motion and I guess a welfare check would be made by the police, by which time they'd be finding my body.
I plan to send a delayed email to my ex husband, to go over financial particulars and to emphasize I want to be cremated, no funeral, etc. I saw my father the other day and somehow we got on the topic of the possibility of one being a vegetable in a hospital bed, and I told him no way, I wouldn't want to "live" like that and if it ever came down to it, please pull the plug. My sister knows this about me, too.
My method will either be night night or hanging, so the email I plan to send to notify my ex and essentially start the process of sending police/EMS over to remove my body will be sent about 2 hours post death. I think a 2 hour gap is enough time for me to successfully CTB and not have my body rot here. Trying to be as courteous as I can for the landlord and neighbors I guess.
If I was CTB'ing in a forest some place, I'd still send out a delayed email to my ex. As much as the thought of just disappearing is comforting, in reality I know my father and sister would be wondering where the hell I was and I don't want to put them through more than I already have.
TLDR; Try using Boomerang to set up and send a delayed email with instructions so your dog isn't alone for however long and the "clean up" process can begin.
