So ... You know how they tell you not to make impulsive decisions when a loved one dies?? Yeah ... About that ...
Meet my new "friend" Sir Kane the Dane ... I have ALWAYS wanted a Great Dane but there was also ALWAYS someone in my life who threw a fit and said "No" ... Well, except my kids -- THEY would have been SO happy! But the manager at whatever apartment complex we lived at over the years wouldn't have been pleased so ...
I am starting to understand why women who lose their husbands to death tend to stay single ...



And while someone else may see this as "wasteful" or "meaningless" well, he makes me happy. And I can honestly say I haven't been happy in a long, LONG time ... I hope everyone who sees this post learns this from me -- it's never too late to try and be happy. And though it might not make sense to anyone else on this Godforsaken planet, if it doesn't hurt anyone else and you are minding your business, then fuck them. You do you! And NEVER apologise for that! Life is too short to let other people make you anything but happy.
But also you do NOT need them to be happy. That was a HARD one for me to learn. I do not need a man ... Or a woman ... In order to be "complete". And neither do you. Come here and chat someone up if you are lonely. SOMEBODY will visit with you. I have several folks here who I adore and would walk across fire for -- they know who they are. The men and women I have met here (all of whom are young enough to be my grandkids -- well, except Walter, he's my long-lost brother
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) are some of the finest people I have had the pleasure of calling family.
I know none of us found this place because life has been all sunshine and roses. Life is a bitch. Lots of time, even on a good day. Just do the best you can, ask for help (or a shoulder to cry on) when you need it and know, when your time comes, you did the best you could with what you had to work with. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Honestly.


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