Discussion Ever been in a suicide pact?

[brainwormz]

How did you wind up in one if you have? And what happened with it?

For me yes I have been in one. It was with my first "relationship". We sort of entered into it from a point of saving one another from ctb if that's not to controversial here. If one of us wanted to ctb we had to agree on both of us doing it. We wound up going noncontact after our mutual toxicity and crazy became too much. So it just kinda naturally disolved.

 

[DestinyRot707]

it wasnt really mutually agreed on, more of declarations to each other that if one of us ctb then the other would just whenever either of us was havin a breakdown. it was similar to your situation but we werent actually in a 'relationship', and he stopped talking to me when i told his boyfriend he tried cheating on him with me.

 

[soonatpeace777888]

These are actually very risky. If you fail and the other person succeeds they can prosecute you.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Yes- it was half joking, half serious with a childhood friend. We were having a very rough time of it. Needless to say- our method ideas were ridiculous. They eventually recovered (as far as I'm aware) and have their own family now. It was comforting at the time though. Good job we didn't try anything though. It very likely would only have ended up in broken bones and a severe telling off.

 

[TheHuman]

Yeah mine is just like any other. My best friend has some serious issues, and since I also kinda want to ctb I agreed that if he wanted to ctb then I would go with him. I belive that sucide pacts are just a way to know that you aren't going leave the person you made the pact with grieving.

 

[fedupwithlife]

it wasnt really mutually agreed on, more of declarations to each other that if one of us ctb then the other would just whenever either of us was havin a breakdown. it was similar to your situation but we werent actually in a 'relationship', and he stopped talking to me when i told his boyfriend he tried cheating on him with me.

He was Bisexual?

 

[SexyIncél]

You can have healthy suicide pacts. It requires sufficient competence at teaming up and accomplishing shared goals

It's a small ask: not dying alone. In any functional society, this'd go without saying. But no, of course we get the g00fy societies, so everyone's reinventing this from scratch, badly

If we're gonna have to do this dumb "dying" thing, what do we want from it? Making sure you won't wake up brain-damaged. Maybe some comfort, humor, tenderness. Basic human sympathy, that humans all-to-frequently lack. Maybe someone recording your story, in a way that interests people. Who knows

 

[DestinyRot707]

He was Bisexual?

dunno, his ex was a trans guy and im nb but were both afab. i never thought of it though tbh

 

[Life interrupted]

Yes. We still talk about it sometimes after a year and a half of our online relationship. I still wish we could die together even though it's so fucking hard. I don't know if it's gonna ever happen

 

[FindingHome]

I've never been in a suicidal pact but I met some suicidal people and would have thoughts of us standing over the bridge holding hands and jumping together. It would definitely feel easier to kill yourself with others than doing it alone.

 

[ANONYMOUSM]

i wished then we could of helped each other kill ourselves

 

[Idon'tknow828]

No, but I want to be. I'm fine with dying, I just don't want to die alone. I have my SN and I'm ready to go but I don't want to go alone yk.