Yeah but can you actually disprove that women aren't typically qualifiable for the 'loser' category, but men are? Just as women can be sluts but men can't, men can be losers but women can't (speaking on broad social perception terms, because of course a man can be sexually frantic or a woman unsatisfied with her achievements).
The point is, so what? What is the argument here in this dipshit smorgasbord of a thread? Is it that feminism has made it bad for all men, as expressed in the title? Is it that it's unfair on men that they can't be outwardly chauvinistic dickheads without the risk of attracting opprobrium, as also expressed in this thread? Is it that being a man these days is essentially to be persecuted, as also expressed in this thread? Or is it simply because you can call women numerous gender-based insults but it's more common for a man to be called a "loser", that most heinous of insults? Because honestly, there is no coherent point being made in any of this steady stream of whiny horseshit, it's just yet another thread of assholes bleating about how unfair it is that women can choose their partners according to any chosen criteria and how this is fundamentally persecutive. Rank bullshit, all of it.
Of course you're allowed to speak here. Free Speech innit!!!! I also wouldn't apologise for causing offence here, it's not like your post is anywhere near the most obnoxious contribution here.
Lol I felt like I had been unknowingly transported to a whole other website, one I could never belong to or dare to post on. I suppose the 'sister' site still exists does it, the incel one? Repellent though I find the ideology I feel bad for these guys honestly.
Predictably, like the other incels on this site, while doing your 'research' you conveniently missed out the fact that, globally, women attempt suicide at a disproportionately higher rate than men - the difference in death rate only exists because women more often use less violent/lethal methods like OD which usually fail. Also, women are more likely to end up as single parents, this responsibility can act as a suicide deterrent even if their lives are shittier than their male counterparts.
Who has created double standards? It's very biblical of you to blame everything on women but 'man up' is something that is usually said by men - it's the one aspect of toxic masculinity and patriarchal thinking that affects men, and actually, feminists and many women in general are pretty vocal against it because it has a big impact on mental health. But sure, carry on cherry picking facts and examples to create your narrative of victimisation at the hands of women.
Could not agree more.
Why does that even matter whether or not someone can feel regret mid-coitus? You don't have a point. You seem to be taking it personally. Also, loser could mean anything, I'd call someone a loser if they were scummy, low-life, a cheat or an asshole. It's not a gender-specific insult at all.
How can it be a double-standard anyway when there are gender-specific insults for women. There are other things someone could say other than your example of 'slut' that would only be insulting to the female gender and relating to sex. Again, seems pretty close-minded and seems to be your personal view more than anything, because why else equate loser to slut in such a specific and all-encompassing way as if those were the only two options.
That is absolutely normalized depending on where you are talking. It 100% depends on the audience. You would also get shut down for discussing men in purely derogatory terms. I believe someone got banned for generalizing men, or in relation to that. There's nothing wrong with "this specific man is a loser" that's a personal statement, she didn't even say that, but now she's being thought-policed for thinking that having sex with someone might be a bad idea? Entitled much?
As posted above, the point made is "so what?". There isn't an actual point behind why it matters in the first place. Yes, nobody wants to be called a loser. Nobody wants to be called a bitch either. This thread is basically complaining about some anonymous woman thinking another anonymous person is a loser. Imagine another thread, making a huge argument because someone thought someone else was a bitch and its a huge double standard, etc. It would seem pretty ridiculous and yet here we are.
This will dissipate in time when it becomes more apparent that the majority of the people who turn up here to churn this muck out demand empathy and understanding for their perceived persecution at all times and offer absolutely fucking nothing in return to others as they consider an inability to obtain sexual gratification on demand as the ultimate in human suffering.
I don't like this sowhatism treatment. Incel/MGTOW types are actually soft/sensitive men that are screaming for attention and compassion (some of them are actually psychopaths and malignant narcissists like Elliot Rodgers), giving them a cold shoulder will only reaffirm their beliefs about society caring less about men. These beliefs are true either way, lol, you just need to adapt to it and whine when whining is productive.
OP is not upset because they were called a loser, they're upset because some anonymous woman thought it was a bad idea to have sex with someone they thought were a loser.
This is typically wrong-headed in its innately patriarchal assumption that it's incumbent upon people who correctly find this inane chauvinistic drivel to be offensive consider the feelings of the man espousing it prior to countering it, but if you're going to apply this logic then it's quite telling that you prioritise the need for people to coddle the pathetic egos of men who don't get sex on demand over the need for people to log in here and not stumble across yet another outpouring of braindead misogynistic bile.
Just a minor point that I've mentioned before: I think that never having (+never having had, +[predicted] never going to have) access to a mate would be as painful as losing your only child (and then living with it, without reproducing again). Not entirely sure about this, but I think it checks out if we just think DNA/evolution. I know it completely destroyed my entire life all but single-handedly (and many others had a similarly large emotional trauma from it).
This really cracks me up.
The whole point of my post was in my observation that certain insults already ARE rigidly gendered.
It was just an example. My whole point was that it's okay to use gender-specific insults about men, not so much about women.
Maybe you want to read my post again.
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that she appears my friend, as usual she comes across as sanctimonious and holier than thou in her diatribe definitely, and you only tried to point out some facts in your narrative, way i see it is were al aching to die or we wouldnt be here, and when we are gone none of this shit will much matter, i am with you tho in the sense that men are often silenced i know so because i have lived it, and that is without a partner in tow, sometimes even with, if your partner invalidates you, she sounds beyond a reasonable intellectual discussion that is for sure, no debate to be had there, that feminist who wished death on al men whilst they kill themselves in there droves needs dropping like a bad habit or plain ignored, seriously, so much hatred about about these days, most of it directed at men, there is outward hostility out there, which is why i prefer to avoid people bro, and keep a low profile, it is quieter and more peaceful, usually i would ignore this woman, but i had to pipe up and express myself, because otherwise what happens again ?, were silenced, they don't realise the offence they themselves cause, i am betting women have plenty of issues of there own, it cant be easy and there are predators out there no doubt, but please dont lump us al in the same bracket is my argument, like that feminist did,her remarks were al men are born inherent rapists and men need to be culled and i can quote the headline and the article, it was uk based, a story per usual, plain disgusting, take care man, no offence intended to anybody, i just wanted to get it off my chest
Some of them do and that's the point of it.
Sounds like she has some real issues alright.
This is almost parody.
Don't mind him, he is just jerking off to your bad grammar, shame attracts the guy, that's why he is always sniffing out the incels. A real intellectual conversationalist and the last gentleman of the forum.
dude nobody gives a fuck irl what makes you think there going to on here ?, pmsl laughable muchly.
Don't you want to have sex with different women? Are you being hypocritical or is your sex drive just really low? I really don't get this kind of an attitude.
