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wannabeangel

wannabeangel

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my question is just the title basically and idk where to really ask questions. i have my vent thread in the suicide discussion area, i made it a thread so i wouldnt clog the feed ofc + gives myself an easier timeline. im prob overthinking it, but i wanna make sure im not doing anything wrong cuz i am a noob to this place still, and havent used forums like this much besides some ED ones as a preteen/teen and semi-recently, but i havent been using those a lot lately either + every place is different and tbh i just dont wanna be annoying or anything ;w;

also sorry if this is the wrong place to ask, but i looked around and couldnt rlly figure out a better place unless i missed something. think im really just asking for reassurance im not annoying if i vent a ton like sometimes multiple times a day, or prob daily unless i get too depressed to write. is making a thread for it despite how much i post in it the right way to do it? i dont think my posts will be low effort ever, usually when i ramble its at least a paragraph unless im exhausted then sometimes just a few words.

wrote too much for a simple ass question lmao oopsies but like yeah, i just wanna be a good member here ig lol
 
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It's lovely that you're being so considerate. As far as I know, I don't think members get into trouble for using their own vent threads multiple times a day. I'm certain that other users do. I'm not a mod though so- I can't be 100% certain. It's more problematic when people create multiple threads- which I've been guilty of time to time.

If it really concerns you, you could request a mod move your thread to the private discussion tab or here. The Sanctuary is almost all diary threads although- I think you need a few hundred posts to access there.

I don't think you should worry too much though. Even if you eventually receive a warning, it's unlikely to be a full ban. I doubt it will even come to that though- unless it's every hour or something you're adding to it. Maybe a mod can clarify though- what they consider excessive.

I guess we have a profile page too- you could consider using. Although, I'm not really sure how to be honest. It's not something I particularly wanted to do.
 
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wannabeangel

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Mar 14, 2026
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It's lovely that you're being so considerate. As far as I know, I don't think members get into trouble for using their own vent threads multiple times a day. I'm certain that other users do. I'm not a mod though so- I can't be 100% certain. It's more problematic when people create multiple threads- which I've been guilty of time to time.

If it really concerns you, you could request a mod move your thread to the private discussion tab or here. The Sanctuary is almost all diary threads although- I think you need a few hundred posts to access there.

I don't think you should worry too much though. Even if you eventually receive a warning, it's unlikely to be a full ban. I doubt it will even come to that though- unless it's every hour or something you're adding to it. Maybe a mod can clarify though- what they consider excessive.

I guess we have a profile page too- you could consider using. Although, I'm not really sure how to be honest. It's not something I particularly wanted to do.
thank you, i've seen other long vent threads but idk i just had to make sure i wouldnt do anything wrong, maybe a mod will have better input eventually but it seems safe for now i think. i dont think i have access to every area with being new, so i just made my thread in the main suicide one. idk about just my profile page, cuz i feel like it's nice when every once in awhile someone may reply to what i wrote, nobody has yet but i've seen others reply to other's vent threads. having it just on my profile page feels a lil lonely
 
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