Deleted member 7141
Do not be prisoner of your life. Die a little, lol
- Apr 15, 2019
- 52
A long read but hopefully others can relate.
Does anyone grieve who they may have been/had potential to become? If I could start my life over I would get protection from the abuse earlier. I would have pursued a career in law enforcement, FBI or CIA, Forensics. I have always loved forensics and studying/researching criminality. I also wanted to make the world a safer place. I wanted to get married one day, have loving friends, family, a normal life.
I once had dreams but it was too late by the time I realized they could have been a possibility. Things have gone past the point of return; my mind is not right. My life is wrecked by irreversible collateral damage socially, mentally, and physically . My life is permanently ruined. It is too much to explain but what I just wrote is facts!
I should have pulled the plug over a decade ago. Now I am in my early thirties and worse off by surviving my existence for as long as I have. Now, as a person I am figuratively deformed beyond all recognition and my mind is an open festering wound that is causing gangrene of the soul. I am missing… if I ever even really existed at all. It feels like I have always been just surviving not thriving.
I knew when I was a small child that my life wasn't going to be worth living. I had this inner angst and bad feeling in the pit of my stomach that my young mind couldn't fully understand at the time. I just "knew" my life was going to be hard and that if I remained alive it wasn't going to be worth the cost of the price I would pay. So, at age ten I attempted to kill myself more than once second time a charm but not lucky enough to succeed.
First attempt my abusive parent confined me to my room isolating me from the outside world as I vomited on myself and could have died. Parent wouldn't take me to hospital planned to just let me ride it out. Yelled at me that I had did it purposely to "get them in trouble". "Why was I doing this to them." Yet, I was the one dying posion in my blood stream. Even then tbe focus was on on them and demonizing what they felt was the source of all their problems- my existence.
They didn't want to get in trouble for allowing it to happen. The second time I ended up at age ten with tubes in my nose mouth stomach pumped in ICU.
Now decades later I realize that I still have that bad feeling in the pit of my stomach except now the weight of my lifetime of a miserable existence and trauma is slowly crushing me. I can't even panic anymore. The slow death has set in. The boa constrictor of life is wrapped around my body squeezing me to death and I know it is inevitable so I stop fighting it because it would be a form of denial; I am stuck with no way to free myself from what has become my life and the person I am now.
I often sit and wonder what I could have done differently because the thoughts of me playing out the life I wish I had seems so pleasant and fulfilling. It is just a mirage in the desert of my life. I come back to the present moment, the room I am sitting in, and reality sets in. There is only one way to end this. Continuing to live isn't even a part of the conversation.
What I have lived through and continue to live through has permanently damaged me. I believe I am what is known as a "targeted individual "they" want to see me end my life. Well, this program is over they can have what they want. I give up! I don't care anymore. All the fight in me has stopped. The abuse of people in positions of power over me is to much for me to continue to bear.
I have no desire at all to continue to exist despite what "do gooders" think. I am not depressed in the clinical sense. I am calm and clear minded. Everyone that wants to die isn't mentally ill. Many of us may even have mental health diagnosis STILL the decision to die may be based on a logical train of thought based on our right to decide is it worth it? Is continuing to live "whatever our individual circumstances" worth the price we (alone) will have to pay?
Sometimes there isn't a solution, the individual isn't interested in "things supposedly getting better". People move beyond that. There is a limit a breaking point at which we sit down the boxing gloves, bloodied face body, and climb out of the ring. We are looking to end it not keep going through more rounds.
People say , "Stay in another round… a few more years. Things will get/could become better."
I am like, "Ummm- Hell no!"
I hate "do gooders/Christians, family, friends, strangers on internet, professionals" use of the word "but" ..but this, but that, your selfish, your mentally ill, you will regret it,.....blah blah blah
I can think for myself and I feel very positive about my choice to free myself.
Everyone isn't looking for an "out" with positive thinking. Nope! I choose realistic logical thinking.
Some people are chemically imbalanced, just need to feel loved, or are having a tempoary crisis. They can be saved but not people like me. This isn't some spur of the moment thing where I feel "triggered". I am not having a bad year so resorting to this. I, like many others, have carefully exmained our lives and come to certain conclusions over yearsss. We are who Euthanasia were meant for like it is available in Northern Europe.
Nothing will change I will NEVER be able to, for example" work in the field I want to. I have a colorful past that started by me trying to protect myself from abuse. It morphed into a nightmare. How many years later so much has happened, it will never be a possibility. No, I don't have a criminal record the colorful past is in reference to a lot of stuff.
If I wanted to end it just because of that I have a right to whether it makes sense to another person or not. There is no such thing as a "hope transplant". Some of us are figuratively terminally ill.
I grieve the life I can never have. The few things that did or would have made me happy (working overseas, certain career, having a partner ect) are NEVER going to be possibilities. You don't know my situation so please don't dismiss what I share about my life. Don't you hate when people say sh*t that wishful thinking or condescending?
"It will get better"
"You still have time"
"Anything is possible"
"It could happen/change"
"Others have it worse than you"
BLAH BLAH BLAHHHHHH
The reality is that unless you have to live in the aftermath of an individual's life if they choose to remain alive you can't assume stuff that isn't relevant to their life/situation.
I wish I could start over and/or I could have the life I want but I am in deep sh*t with some very powerful and dangerous people plus other stuff. I have no recourse, no do overs, no where to run'n hide, no protection, I can't protect myself or fight back effectively, I have lost my life, health (physical/mental) and blah blah blah there is no coming back from the mess I am in, no reinventing myself, or better times coming for me.
I am seriously ready to go.
Does anyone grieve who they may have been/had potential to become? If I could start my life over I would get protection from the abuse earlier. I would have pursued a career in law enforcement, FBI or CIA, Forensics. I have always loved forensics and studying/researching criminality. I also wanted to make the world a safer place. I wanted to get married one day, have loving friends, family, a normal life.
I once had dreams but it was too late by the time I realized they could have been a possibility. Things have gone past the point of return; my mind is not right. My life is wrecked by irreversible collateral damage socially, mentally, and physically . My life is permanently ruined. It is too much to explain but what I just wrote is facts!
I should have pulled the plug over a decade ago. Now I am in my early thirties and worse off by surviving my existence for as long as I have. Now, as a person I am figuratively deformed beyond all recognition and my mind is an open festering wound that is causing gangrene of the soul. I am missing… if I ever even really existed at all. It feels like I have always been just surviving not thriving.
I knew when I was a small child that my life wasn't going to be worth living. I had this inner angst and bad feeling in the pit of my stomach that my young mind couldn't fully understand at the time. I just "knew" my life was going to be hard and that if I remained alive it wasn't going to be worth the cost of the price I would pay. So, at age ten I attempted to kill myself more than once second time a charm but not lucky enough to succeed.
First attempt my abusive parent confined me to my room isolating me from the outside world as I vomited on myself and could have died. Parent wouldn't take me to hospital planned to just let me ride it out. Yelled at me that I had did it purposely to "get them in trouble". "Why was I doing this to them." Yet, I was the one dying posion in my blood stream. Even then tbe focus was on on them and demonizing what they felt was the source of all their problems- my existence.
They didn't want to get in trouble for allowing it to happen. The second time I ended up at age ten with tubes in my nose mouth stomach pumped in ICU.
Now decades later I realize that I still have that bad feeling in the pit of my stomach except now the weight of my lifetime of a miserable existence and trauma is slowly crushing me. I can't even panic anymore. The slow death has set in. The boa constrictor of life is wrapped around my body squeezing me to death and I know it is inevitable so I stop fighting it because it would be a form of denial; I am stuck with no way to free myself from what has become my life and the person I am now.
I often sit and wonder what I could have done differently because the thoughts of me playing out the life I wish I had seems so pleasant and fulfilling. It is just a mirage in the desert of my life. I come back to the present moment, the room I am sitting in, and reality sets in. There is only one way to end this. Continuing to live isn't even a part of the conversation.
What I have lived through and continue to live through has permanently damaged me. I believe I am what is known as a "targeted individual "they" want to see me end my life. Well, this program is over they can have what they want. I give up! I don't care anymore. All the fight in me has stopped. The abuse of people in positions of power over me is to much for me to continue to bear.
I have no desire at all to continue to exist despite what "do gooders" think. I am not depressed in the clinical sense. I am calm and clear minded. Everyone that wants to die isn't mentally ill. Many of us may even have mental health diagnosis STILL the decision to die may be based on a logical train of thought based on our right to decide is it worth it? Is continuing to live "whatever our individual circumstances" worth the price we (alone) will have to pay?
Sometimes there isn't a solution, the individual isn't interested in "things supposedly getting better". People move beyond that. There is a limit a breaking point at which we sit down the boxing gloves, bloodied face body, and climb out of the ring. We are looking to end it not keep going through more rounds.
People say , "Stay in another round… a few more years. Things will get/could become better."
I am like, "Ummm- Hell no!"
I hate "do gooders/Christians, family, friends, strangers on internet, professionals" use of the word "but" ..but this, but that, your selfish, your mentally ill, you will regret it,.....blah blah blah
I can think for myself and I feel very positive about my choice to free myself.
Everyone isn't looking for an "out" with positive thinking. Nope! I choose realistic logical thinking.
Some people are chemically imbalanced, just need to feel loved, or are having a tempoary crisis. They can be saved but not people like me. This isn't some spur of the moment thing where I feel "triggered". I am not having a bad year so resorting to this. I, like many others, have carefully exmained our lives and come to certain conclusions over yearsss. We are who Euthanasia were meant for like it is available in Northern Europe.
Nothing will change I will NEVER be able to, for example" work in the field I want to. I have a colorful past that started by me trying to protect myself from abuse. It morphed into a nightmare. How many years later so much has happened, it will never be a possibility. No, I don't have a criminal record the colorful past is in reference to a lot of stuff.
If I wanted to end it just because of that I have a right to whether it makes sense to another person or not. There is no such thing as a "hope transplant". Some of us are figuratively terminally ill.
I grieve the life I can never have. The few things that did or would have made me happy (working overseas, certain career, having a partner ect) are NEVER going to be possibilities. You don't know my situation so please don't dismiss what I share about my life. Don't you hate when people say sh*t that wishful thinking or condescending?
"It will get better"
"You still have time"
"Anything is possible"
"It could happen/change"
"Others have it worse than you"
BLAH BLAH BLAHHHHHH
The reality is that unless you have to live in the aftermath of an individual's life if they choose to remain alive you can't assume stuff that isn't relevant to their life/situation.
I wish I could start over and/or I could have the life I want but I am in deep sh*t with some very powerful and dangerous people plus other stuff. I have no recourse, no do overs, no where to run'n hide, no protection, I can't protect myself or fight back effectively, I have lost my life, health (physical/mental) and blah blah blah there is no coming back from the mess I am in, no reinventing myself, or better times coming for me.
I am seriously ready to go.
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