Discussion do you want to be remembered?

[ctbcat]

... what it says on the tin, i suppose.

do you? if so, how?

... for me, i don't mind how i'm remembered so long as i am. people can mythologise me. make me a monster or angel. so long as it's for memory's sake.

somehow, i just desire to be more, to be something, when i'm dead rather than alive. irony, maybe.

i don't know if i'll ever be more than a headline

 

[Banan321]

I don't care as long my family will be okay without me. I'd rather they magically forget me so they won't hurt.

 

[hikikomorizombie]

no, i want oblivion. that's not possible though. even though i have no1 in my life to remember/mourn me except for actors that'll do so for attention & sympathy, there'll still be evidence that i existed :// i won't be able to completely erase myself.

 

[EyeBeyond]

... what it says on the tin, i suppose.

do you? if so, how?

... for me, i don't mind how i'm remembered so long as i am. people can mythologise me. make me a monster or angel. so long as it's for memory's sake.

somehow, i just desire to be more, to be something, when i'm dead rather than alive. irony, maybe.

i don't know if i'll ever be more than a headline

it's something that I know many people would remember me, since I have close friends who I think some of them care a lot about me, I also make part of a community from a church here in my city, they are like a second family we both help and care for each other, the good thing is that the whole church would pray for my soul, and also my family they love me so much and would feel so much for my death

... what it says on the tin, i suppose.

do you? if so, how?

... for me, i don't mind how i'm remembered so long as i am. people can mythologise me. make me a monster or angel. so long as it's for memory's sake.

somehow, i just desire to be more, to be something, when i'm dead rather than alive. irony, maybe.

i don't know if i'll ever be more than a headline

now if I could choose to be remembered or not, I would choose to be remembered, as you said, I also do not care about what people think about me, some would call me weak for not overcoming my struggles in life, alright its fine, i dont care

 

[FuneralCry]

Of course not, if it was up to me I'd choose to erase my existence so it's like I never existed at all, I only want to be forgotten about.

 

[Whiston72]

99.999% of us won't be. You will be remembered by those who cared for you.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

No.

I don't want to be remembered. Failures should be forgotten.

 

[Doemu]

No, I shouldn't been born at all.

 

[sosoft_sogentle]

Yes, but only for ideals and philosophy.

 

[Unattainable666]

No one remembered me when I was alive why wo I ld any I ne remember me when I'm dead

 

[F@#$]

I plan on an unforgettable exit. And a good haunting if that's a real thing.

 

[anxious_depressive]

No .
Because I'm nobody.

 

[Linda]

In 1,000 years, only a small handful of people now alive will be remembered. In 10,000 years even those few will be forgotten. So what difference does it make if we are forgotten the day after we die?

 

[outrider567]

No, the few that knew me will remember me, that's fine

 

[DeathGivesFreedom]

I don't want to be remembered. On the other hand, it would be nice to be acknowledged and treated as of my existence was actually noticed, but in the end I'm just a failed product of our shit society. I've fallen through the cracks, never to be seen. Out of sight, out of mind. Am I right?

I've always felt the way I lived my life was to produce the smallest footprint possible. I never got into the whole social media circus ride of bullshit and fakery. The friends I've made along the way have all gone their separate ways.

I wonder sometimes, if they ever remembered me, if so, where that text at yo? That's what I thought. Nope. I'm just an NPC lmao.

I don't have any family anymore to remember me, so I'm just breathing to breathe at this point. I wish that when I do CTB, that my body would just disappear as I don't want to traumatize that unlucky soul wondering why I haven't payed rent, or why my room has an ungodly stench coming from it.

 

[Dliena]

I have zulch legacy so hopefully not but mama will sadly surely be weepin' at my costly funeral.

 

[mortuarymary]

I do. Niece said she's going to get a tattoo with my name on.
Remembered for the animal rescue work I've done etc.

 

[DarkThoughts]

... what it says on the tin, i suppose.

do you? if so, how?

... for me, i don't mind how i'm remembered so long as i am. people can mythologise me. make me a monster or angel. so long as it's for memory's sake.

somehow, i just desire to be more, to be something, when i'm dead rather than alive. irony, maybe.

i don't know if i'll ever be more than a headline

All I've ever wanted is to be able to help people and make them smile. If I die as someone who has changed people's lives for the better, even a little bit, that would be wonderful. My kindness was my true downfall, I focus on everyone else's needs before I begin to consider my own.

 

[Silent Raindrops]

No. I don't want to be remembered. I want it to be like I never existed.

 

[Redacted24]

Nope, not remembered...I prefer that nobody would even miss me (and working that now)

 

[Flowerleelee]

Theres some people I hope remember me, but a lot of people I hope don't, I mean I wasn't known for the greatest things

 

[PixelPlant]

i want to be forgotten. despite being aware of the affection others have for me, maintaining that connection will only hurt them even more which is not what i want for them

 

[throneofdispair03]

i wish to be forgotten from this existence and to not be remembered whatsoever

 

[Kit1]

I don't want to be remembered.

 

[dragonofenvy]

Few people know I exist in the first place. I want people to at least know that I existed even if it's after I'm dead. I don't think that's going to happen though. It just feels bad knowing that you're not even going to be an afterthought.

 

[meowmix]

i'd rather not be remembered. i know how it feels like to have happy memories become traumatic. the only thing stopping me from ctb is that i'll be remembered and be more of a burden than if i were just alive (not including the things that come with being alive.)_

 

[doneforlife]

No , "I" don't want to be remembered. I don't want to be even a distant thought in anyone's headspace. First , because it's painful for someone to have you in their thoughts, but not in their life.

Second, is a personal opinion. I feel if you have any desires, you might be just brought back into this realm. I absolutely don't want to be reincarnated , even if it's the best life I can get. Wanting to be remembered projects the desire that you are still attached to this realm , still attached to your self , your ego. Still attached to people who you want to remember you. Still attached to your self worth.

 

[sindra]

Nope, I don't want to be remembered. The only reason I'm still alive is because of my family, they always supported me and the last thing I wanna do it to make them feel sad. It's nice that someone will remember you for the rest of their lives since it would mean someone actually cared for you, but just knowing that it will be devastating for people those people is upsetting.

 

[Katakuri19]

I genuinely don't care about it, not my problem, and I don't think I'll be remembered by many people anyway.

 

[beaten96]

Not really.. I don't really care.. they never loved me.. I've legally Screwed the fuck out of everybody though.. when I die.. they all burn.. I mean they're fucked..