Cremated - as I've said here before, seeing my mother's grave for the first time when I was young, four years after she died, was a traumatic experience and I think there are better ways of remembering people than burying them in the ground and having pieces of stone with their names on them. I feel so strongly about it I don't want to see her grave again, even if it means not going to my father's funeral, though that's one of the reason I want to predecease him.