Do you like the way you look?

[1DayItWillBover]

no.. i do like my hair though

 

[mouseteeth]

Not really... I'm short (5'2"). My weight is okay (hovers around 100-105) but I have no boobs and basically all my fat seems to accumulate around my face. I'm fucking 29 and people think I'm 18. When I had short hair people would make fun as if I was a prepubescent boy. I've been told I'm good-looking but nobody approaches me and I'll probably die alone. Whatever.

 

[Philosykos]

No. Nose too big, face too long, jaw too strong and manly, facial asymmetry... I could go on. I could have seen myself maybe, perhaps getting to a point of at least being somewhat okay with my looks if HRT had worked better on me and after FFS. But now that life has decided to also throw psoriasis and what I suspect to be alopecia my way, I don't see myself getting to that point anymore.

 

[Jon86]

No, I have a skin and eye disease on top of balding. I was once attractive, around 14 my health went to shit (genetics) and i've been suffering ever since. Life was SO EASY when I was healthy and it became IMPOSSIBLE when I lost my health. Literally put in 0 effort in self improvement as a kid and was happy all the time and in the 20 years since I put in MAX effort and all I got was 20 years of constant worsening depression.

HEALTH > WEALTH, looks are apart of health, especially when you get below a 5, your health will be negatively affected.

 

[mathieu]

OP ...you look perfectly fine to me, stop torturing yourself ;) I permit myself this outrageous comment because I also went for plastic surgery twice (2 fails in the end), that didn't help my insecurities. I still am not confident, never been, but slowly forgiving about my aspect. I received some of the loveliest comments from SS members I estimated for their look too, also on some personal hate features (like ugly scar, for some it's charming), whereas before, never a feedback, which didn't help to boost the ego. Beauty is mostly in the mind ...and the eye of the beholder. Thus subjective. It's very harsh to judge yourself while you could be fully accepted by somebody...

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Well, you could look like a chipmunk, I would still worship you for the red hair : massive turn on here! (...all colors - red/auburn/pink/green/blue - the bests in that order. Just not yellow - blondes own the trademark)



it's about the induced appetite, right ? Otherwise, this is the easiest problem solved, if you're motivated. If used to psychological suffering, it can be done finger in the nose. Last year, I was worse than your weight (95-96) then lost 15 kilos in 2 months, by water fasting 4-5 days in a row (yeah, I'm extreme), on & off then rest in between, without much planning (the 2 first days are the most difficult then you don't feel a thing, not hungry anymore - plus when I wanted to crack, I would put plenty of stuff in my mouth for the taste, just not swallow and spit, tricking my organism, which worked well. It's the ingestion which triggers more envy so the word is : discipline, then it's manageable). I didn't regain for a long time (jusqu'à une pire dépression où j'ai volontairement lâché prise pour tout) because my body lost the habit to binge eat as a compensation mechanism to poor life/mental hygiene. I will repeat the operation, starting tomorrow ...plus eventually train, high intensity (méthode Ropers si ça te dit quelque chose)

I managed to lose 20kg on duromine (phentermine) plus weight loss shakes instead of food. Very low calorie diet. I want to do that again but my doctor won't give me the drugs and I'm not very motivated because I plan to ctb.

 

[Morphinekiss]

I've recently lost 55 pounds and still working on it so I'm starting to like my appearance again. I have visible hip and rib bones again and that gives me more pleasure than it probably should.

 

[ArtsyDrawer]

I don't really care about my looks right now. Got a call from hospital teasing me with the idea that it may become an interest once more.

i think I look best shaved completely. Head and facial hair off. I've been told I look like (a very tired) Nazi, but when I gave it a thought, I realized I like looking like a Nazi, tired or otherwise.

i would post the picture that brought this idea, but I would have to be at home for that and do some heavy archeology on my My Documents folder. That screenshot was never intended to be used more than once.

 

[selfhater]

i look like this and worse!!!! my nose is sooo huge and puffy from all sides my chin like the picture, small lips, face asymmetry, acne, underweight, uneven skin tone and the list goes on and on:((
so horrendously ugly not just the face my whole abnormal body too I HATE IT SO MUCH

 

[a.n.kirillov]

Sometimes yes and sometimes no

 

[Krash1990]

You ladies have got to stop worrying so much about your looks. A girl that is a 5(and everyone that posted that I can see if beyond that) but will just love and care for her man is a gift sent from heaven.

Id give anything for a good faithful woman that wants to care for me, and in return be cared for by me.

My wife is no super model by any standards. But her energy and the way we interact made her the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in this weird way. If I stared at her I could just see light and beauty exploding all around her.