Do you have a date?

[Smelly_ballz]

If so when is it? When/why did you decide on that day? Or if you don't, is there a reason why?
I chose the week of Nov. 13-17 or the week of Nov. 27-Dec. 1 bc that is far enough away from people's bdays and it'll be after a concert I'm in (sadly ppl are relying on me for it). I'm not choosing a specific date or time bc I want it to feel more natural. Kind of like impulse, but slightly less messy. I also know that I am more likely to back out if I do that.

 

[Strawberry Moon]

Never had a date planned, it's always been a spontaneous decision for me even with planned methods.

 

[itsnotalwayssunny]

Same,
Probably keep it away from major holidays and birthdays, just to be considerate about it. But, no. I've got a kit so I'm ready, just waiting until the time is as right as it's going to be. In my mind the date will be forgettable.
I'm ready I just need that part of me to snap and we're off.
That's nice though, fair play.

 

[AerialBoundaries]

It was October 5th, but plans changed.

 

[lordfungington]

15/04/24

 

[leavingsoon99]

Sunday. November 5, 2023. I'm curious, excited, scared, and relieved all at once.

 

[FuneralCry]

I don't have any plans to leave in the near future in my case as sadly having access to a reliable suicide method is a privilege, not a human right. It's so horrible how we cannot just have the option to easily die in peace.

 

[wasphyso]

10th of February 2024

 

[Smelly_ballz]

10th of February 2024

i love garfield. I collect garfield plushies!

 

[achb]

Never had a date planned, it's always been a spontaneous decision for me even with planned methods.

Me too. I feel that even if I planned it, I would fail to go through with it. I figure it'll be spontaneous on a day where things just seem to line up well. I do hope to die on a weekend rather than a weekday though

 

[ddn.ctb]

Nothing more than soon!!

That allows for the impulse to take charge. I just have to be certain I have my kit always ready to go

 

[iamsofkntired]

Nov 12 , it will be a Sunday and I will have about 7 hours with out anyone searching , it's after my birthday it just passed and after 6 days it will be my bf who ctbs birthday so if there is something after maybe we'll go through his first birthday in the after life together

 

[Praestat_Mori]

I've not set a specific date or week/month for my CTB in the future bc I don't see a reason to do it. I have my method ready to go and should my circumstances become worse or I can't bear it anymore or I don't want to go on anymore I can do it at any time. Should things improve I can just go on without having to "cancel a certain date" I also think that if I decided to set a date that would me push into unnecessary pressure.

 

[Smelly_ballz]

I've not set a specific date or week/month for my CTB in the future bc I don't see a reason to do it. I have my method ready to go and should my circumstances become worse or I can't bear it anymore or I don't want to go on anymore I can do it at any time. Should things improve I can just go on without having to "cancel a certain date" I also think that if I decided to set a date that would me push into unnecessary pressure.

Same. I think a specific date would put too much pressure on me and I would be pressuring myself to do it even if it didn't feel like the right time

 

[BrknEyes]

Personally pushing for the weekend of November 10th, going to either using my p30 or my Usp both 9mm.

 

[sserafim]

If so when is it? When/why did you decide on that day? Or if you don't, is there a reason why?
I chose the week of Nov. 13-17 or the week of Nov. 27-Dec. 1 bc that is far enough away from people's bdays and it'll be after a concert I'm in (sadly ppl are relying on me for it). I'm not choosing a specific date or time bc I want it to feel more natural. Kind of like impulse, but slightly less messy. I also know that I am more likely to back out if I do that.

I'd ideally like to ctb in autumn, and any time before my 25th birthday in 2025. The thought of being in my mid-20s sickens me. I'll make sure to ctb before then

 

[PanaxMan]

Today or next week before 11/15. I wish I could die on the 20th but oh well

 

[twatingthroughlife]

This weekend. I hope I do everything correctly.

 

[Givingupandgivingin]

I have a date… it focuses me. I have to sort out my own caseload as I work in MH, as well as some stuff to do with my children and my finances.
If I don't have a date everything just ambles along and I risk impulsively going for it and nothing being sorted out.

 

[tarquinn95]

Currently part of a police investigation for false allegations. The stress it's causing me is crazy! The outcome I know will go in my favour in the end as I am innocent… but oh my the waiting and zero information…

So I've decided… if I get charged, CTB will be within' 24 hours. I can't subject myself to anymore stress!

 

[iDontKnowWhat]

Next Monday, 06/11.

I have the second perfect method (the first is Nembutal).

I'm afraid I won't be able to do this, but i know that i'll do this time... I'll remember everything that brought me here

 

[LostAngler]

If so when is it? When/why did you decide on that day? Or if you don't, is there a reason why?

Mine is November 20th. My original date was a few days after my birthday, so as not to interfere with the birthdays of a couple other friends. But my date eventually changed to November 20th when my favourite person in the world threw me aside like garbage when I reached out to her.

 

[PanaxMan]

Mine is November 20th. My original date was a few days after my birthday, so as not to interfere with the birthdays of a couple other friends. But my date eventually changed to November 20th when my favourite person in the world threw me aside like garbage when I reached out to her.

That's my birthday. I'll be turning 21. But I won't be alive by then. 100%

 

[wasphyso]

i love garfield. I collect garfield plushies!

I also love the funny orange cat

 

[Smelly_ballz]

I'm afraid I won't be able to do this, but i know that i'll do this time... I'll remember everything that brought me here

me too