Discussion do you ever think of those you'll leave behind

[hao☆]

personally, I don't. There's a lot of people that chose to give up on me in my downs and only come back in my ups but never when im in the slumps. If there's anything to it - a big fuck you and a big fat middle finger to them. waiting 2 hear your thoughts on this ty :3c

 

[woodlandcreature]

not really, no. nothing will matter when i'm dead.

 

[Alpacachino]

not really, no. nothing will matter when i'm dead.

It won't matter after you're dead. But I believe OP is talking about right now. Some people have people who love them or they even have dependents. In those cases, you're definitely going to worry about what will happen to them after you're gone.

Me personally, I don't worry about that because the few in my family who care about me are either very old or have loving families of their own. So they're not going to suffer much in my absence.

 

[woodlandcreature]

Some people have people who love them or they even have dependents. In those cases, you're definitely going to worry about what will happen to them after you're gone.

yeah, i didn't discount that. i was talking about my own experience.

 

[FuneralCry]

It wouldn't matter, death is all that's inevitable anyway, this torturous, futile existence is just waiting to die, all will be gone and forgotten in non-existence no matter what.

 

[natori]

I don't need to think about anyone since I don't have anyone around who would care. My older sister and my nephew would be sad for a week or two and then forget about me but that's about it.

 

[ILikeSylveon]

I...don't know. I was born in a destroyed family where my mom and dad weren't even prepared to bring me, neither emotionally or financially, yet they did at 40. I have a older sister with 12 year age gap, she used to tell me back when i was 6-7 years old, that i should die. She even used to beat me brutally, back when i was a kid. Mom and dad used to intervene only when, things used to get worse. I can comfortably say, that i don't have a emotional chains of a family holding me.
if ppl tell me that your "mom would be sad", i just tell them she should be sad for even thinking about bringing me here, 20 years ago.

 

[pokerrkitty]

I think about them a lot. Not my family- that bridge is thoroughly burned- but my boyfriend and my immediate friend group. They are going to be devastated, and I can only hope they won't hate me after I make the choice.

 

[joey2424]

I don't have anyone who would be directly affected. As in - I live alone, I'm single and without children. I actually don't have a pet for the first time in my life since my cat unfortunately passed a year ago. I've decided not to get another so it's not something I'd need to arrange for.

I have people who will be sad, and I do feel sad for them. But the intense pain will be temporary and they will get through it. Such is life.

 

[littlecutecorpse]

really only my boyfriend (and friend), who i'm sure will be very heartbroken. but well, he might just move on at some point, like everyone else.

everyone else, including family, i just can't help but not care much about how they'll feel. i really can't.