DarkFriend.

DarkFriend.

Neverending Suffering
May 1, 2022
65
I've seen a lot of posts on here recently about how life is meaningless and inherently valueless, and lots of people lamenting about their misery and suffering and some thoughts came to me this afternoon.

Despite how terrible life can be at times, I do believe that there is some value in existing in the first place. A few things come to mind when I think of this.

Firstly--I argue that what if, in order to see the value in nonexistence, we must first exist? This of course presupposes that there is a value in nonexistence (since you've now lived I think that you can agree with me on this part). But if we'd never existed in the first place, when and how could there be any sort of recognition of value at all?

These 'values' can be represented by the symbols 0, +, -

Let's say that the idea of existence being a negative thing is represented by -

Let's say that the idea of existence being a positive thing (meaning there is some redeeming quality to it from someone's perspective) is represented by +

And the base state, meaning the state of nonexistence (some would say the ideal state), is represented by 0

Type A)

0, -, + = 0 [You're born, which is a negative, then you die, which is a positive, ending in the original state.]
In this example we can argue that there was inherent value to existing, in that the ideal state couldn't be recognized without first existing. Also, there can at any point throughout this person's life be a change of perspective, to where the negative feeling toward life turns into a positive, or least the possibility of the acknowledgement of a redemptive quality.

Type B)

0, +, - = 0 [You're born, which is a positive, then you die, which is a negative, ending in the original state.]
Obviously we can argue that there was some value here, since, even though the original state was reached, and there was the experience of death which was perceived as as a negative, there at least was some time in which there was positive acknowledgement.

Type C)

0, +, + = 2 [You're born, which is a positive, then you die, which is embraced as a positive and part of the life-cycle.]
I think that this can be argued to be the most valuable type of existence, where there are redemptive qualities found in the first state of existence, and also the embracement of death which can also be seen (as it is in some cultures and schools of thought) as a positive.

Theoretical type; type D)

0, 0, 0 = 0 [You're born, which you're neutral on, then you die, which you're also neutral on.]
I think that theoretically this person exists, but practically speaking this is improbable, since we are sentient, emotional beings. I don't know of any person that can possibly remain neutral on any and everything throughout his or her life all the way through, and see neither redemptive qualities nor negative ones. Perhaps this can be represented only philosophically.

Perhaps the best representation of this type is non-sentient life, that which performs its basic functions and has neither the luxury nor the burden of withstanding opinion.

Impossible type; type E)

0, -, - = -2 [You're born, which is a negative, then you die, which is also a negative.]
This type cannot exist simply because if life is perceived as a negative, then death will always be issued as the escape. Meaning that death is, even if suffering in and of itself, a net positive, and a return to the ideal state.


Ultimately I think that life has no inherent meaning, but that at least there is a single redemptive aspect to it, because at the very least, even if someone is in category A (which is where I think many here are), that person could have never recognized the value of the state of nonexistence without first existing. We can of course say that not existing in the first place is preferable to all types--but since we do, in fact, exist, this is arguing for the impossible.

All of this leads me to the question in the title, and another question:

1. Do you believe there is any redemptive quality to life?

2. If not, do you want there to be value in life?
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
38,887
No, there's no benefit to being conscious and aware, trapped in the prison that is existence. In the state of non-existence everything is forgotten about with this existence not even being a distant memory, so to me it's preferable to cease existing as soon as possible to prevent futile suffering and unnecessary problems that never needed to exist.

I don't desire existence at all, I just see it as being a tragic disturbance in what would otherwise be the ideal state of not-being, I only personally see value in actually not existing rather than recognising that it's desirable to not exist, existence is just a cruel mistake that never should have existed and even one second in this world is one second too long for me.
 
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MusicEnjoyer:D

MusicEnjoyer:D

Waiting for my time to arrive.
May 19, 2023
66
There are good things in life, obviously. There are things we enjoy, even if subtly. Thats why ctb isn't easy for most of us.

If someone claims there is cero enjoyment in life, and only suffering, then they would already had ctb, regardless of the risks and posible pain.

There are things that bring us happines/pleasure that keep us tied to this world. When we truly are overwhelmed by the negative, is when we chose to leave.
 
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Homo erectus

Homo erectus

Mage
Mar 7, 2023
560
If there is any good purpose of life, why not just tell people directly? Maybe the world is really a simulation. We are all part of it, playing out the effects of certain rules/program, like the movie dark city (1998).
 
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SpiderLink

SpiderLink

they/them
Apr 3, 2023
361
No, there's no benefit to being conscious and aware, trapped in the prison that is existence. In the state of non-existence everything is forgotten about with this existence not even being a distant memory, so to me it's preferable to cease existing as soon as possible to prevent futile suffering and unnecessary problems that never needed to exist.

I don't desire existence at all, I just see it as being a tragic disturbance in what would otherwise be the ideal state of not-being, I only personally see value in actually not existing rather than recognising that it's desirable to not exist, existence is just a cruel mistake that never should have existed and even one second in this world is one second too long for me.
I think it's best to clarify if u mean in general, or just your personal opinion
 
Challu

Challu

Life boat
Aug 29, 2022
260
Choice E isn't an impossibility if suffering continues after death, which it does in my views, but not eternally.

Everyone will eventually become Choice C.
 
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Braindead Atheist

Braindead Atheist

Specialist
Oct 7, 2020
387
I guess for some people maybe, but in my experience its all a scam. I've worked hard all my life through trauma after trauma all just to get bullied and fired at almost every job I've taken in my adult life. My only usable talent, art, isn't even persuable.

All I ever got from working hard to follow my dreams is an empty college fund and through Workforce Partnership, a stupid EKG certification that I can't even use.

I believe dreaming is a scam waiting to happen and a waste of time. I know I'll never have money to pay for the stuff that actually does make life bearable either. I know a lot of others have it pretty good, but not me nor the others on this site. MY life doesn't have enough good qualities to make it worth living. I don't believe MY life can redeem itself. We'll put it that way.
 
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Scythe

Lost in a delusion
Sep 5, 2022
545
There are good things in life, but they are merely fireflies that light your way as you walk through suffering and despair. Take time to apperciate the fireflies, but no need to linger. They are fleeting, fireflies die fast. Maybe the fireflies will all be gone soon, better reach the other side before the fireflies all die and the only thing left for you is despair.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
9,840
I think it's as @Braindead Atheist put it- down to personal opinion. Some people suffer horrific things in their lives but they draw on their (awful) experiences to help others in similar circumstances- setting up charities and foundations etc. I'm sure they see that as redemptive.

As for existence making us appreciate non existence. Well- I guess I've often thought life was about balance- maybe we need the negative in order to fully appreciate the positive. Still- some people are terrified of non existence too- even people here- who don't particularly like life either! Plus, once we're non existent- CAN we actually appreciate anything? I guess we can look forward to the idea now. Still- if the only redemptive part of life is looking forward to dying, I think I could have comfortably done without the experience... šŸ˜†

Did you ever watch the Paul Merton show: Room 101? He once had the comedian Spike Miligan on. It was a show where celebrities could condemn the things they hated into 'Room 101'. Anyway- Spike Miligan had a personal dislike of Portsmouth. (A coastal city in the UK.) Your post just reminded me of this because Paul Merton was describing how the tourist board described Portsmouth- a gateway to all these other places- 'Come to Portmouth- you can get to somewhere else from here!' šŸ˜† If the only good thing life is for is death then yeah- I wish we could have opted out!

But yeah- personally I think life CAN have redemptive qualities. Just depends on the person living it really and how they feel.
 
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NoReasonToLive2023

Change and decay in all around I see
Jun 4, 2023
62
Personally I think life COULD be good, but there are far too many evil people who focus on increasing their own power and wealth for life to ACTUALLY be good.
 
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