Unfortunately, that is the dark reality of life which many try to sugarcoat. I am not religious myself, however, I do believe god exist. If everything comes from somewhere and it needs something to be where it is, doesn't that mean that we as humans, needed something to bring us to reality. Ask yourself how we are alive, how time is brought to existence and all of matter. It only makes sense to believe something brought it there. And because of that, we can infer that whatever brought us to life is how God definitely exist. God may not be like we expect, it can honestly be anything at this point as long as its a possibility. But what I can say is that we are suffering a lot because we are alive and I am not sure whether to blame God or not, despite knowing my own problems are my own faults; it does make me feel betrayed and lied though, can't help but feel a sense of envy towards others. I am open to any opinions and would love to hear what others say. Life is unfair, some are more attractive, some are more intelligent, some are rich, some are born poor, its just how life works. Humans are quite small creatures when we look into the cosmos of the universe - Our existence is no better than an insect in the eyes of god or creature that's higher up in the chain of life. Remember that humans are also apart of a food web, having to follow all of our Hierarchy of Maslow's needs. If anyone disagrees with me, I would be happy to listen to what you have to say and we can openly and kindly discuss this controversial topic.