DeathIsTheWayOut99
Warlock
- Jun 6, 2020
- 798
Its probably a BPD thing or to the fact that I wish I died to know if my mom actually loved me, or both, but meh
I feel the same. I'm not even quite sure how anyone out of my family would even know since no one checks up on me. Maybe it'll spread by rumour but even if they happened to care I wouldn't because you know I'd be deadI know that the only people who would care if I died are my parents and sister. Most people I was close with in the pastbwouldn't even know.
Its probably a BPD thing or to the fact that I wish I died to know if my mom actually loved me, or both, but meh
I cannot be bothered to attempt suicide for attention, because I know what reaction I'd get from my family - the same as I got the last time, 8 years ago. Anger and disbelief. Back then, I had two-three people pay attention to me after my attempt, the people who have since been long gone from my life. If I wanted to attempt now, I would not inform anybody of my intentions because honestly I'd just upset people who barely give a fuck about me anyway.I don't really get it, since if you're dead you'd never know?
Unless you mean like trying and deliberately failing to see if people care? I get that, but I know that people really do care about and love me. My parents and family at least.
The paradox is you won't know if they love you if you're successful. But I get it wanting to commit suicide because you feel like no on loves you is valid. But you haven't met everyone in the entire world. If love is the problem, then go find love, because it won't always come to you.
From experience, I think you learn that a lot of people don't care. They'll say they care, but then they don't actually. Words are all they can offer.Unless you mean like trying and deliberately failing to see if people care?
Of course they don't care. Most people are self absorbed and it is unrealistic to expect they'd do anything for others. Looking at it from another perspective - what is there to offer but words to a suicidal person? Nobody can sort out anybody's life for them.From experience, I think you learn that a lot of people don't care. They'll say they care, but then they don't actually. Words are all they can offer.