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Antigonish
Mage
- Sep 19, 2020
- 593
So I have visible scars. And anyone who has them know they kinda stick out. And sure they fade with time, but the newer they are the more the stand out, like a sore thumb. What I'm curious about is, are people treating me the way they are because of them. Will they ignore me, like me, hate me, or love me; because of what they see. Sometimes when I meet someone they dont even look at me, they just blatantly stare at my arms, like those aren't my very precious private parts. Sometimes they'll just come straight out and say you dont have to do that. Or look at me like I wan all the attention, which I do, but the cutting has nothing to do with that. I'm kinda curious if every time a person has been nice or sweet to me, if it was because what they see or if it was me and my almost perfect personality?
I know you guys can't answer for them. But maybe you can give insight. What do you feel or how do you react towards people you meet who obviously self harm. Do you try to step beyond your place and help, even when it may not be needed. Do you treat them sweetly because you're scared to speak your mind, and be responsible for something that really has nothing to do with you. Do you give them tough love. Or do you treat them like a human being, and never really see the scars in the first place?
I know you guys can't answer for them. But maybe you can give insight. What do you feel or how do you react towards people you meet who obviously self harm. Do you try to step beyond your place and help, even when it may not be needed. Do you treat them sweetly because you're scared to speak your mind, and be responsible for something that really has nothing to do with you. Do you give them tough love. Or do you treat them like a human being, and never really see the scars in the first place?