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Emissary of the right to die.
- Aug 30, 2018
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This isn't a new topic and there has been many discussions on what constitutes an impulsive CTB vs a planned CTB with some clear cut while others murky or grey. There are prolifers who view all CTBs to be impulsive or irrational while there are others who see some difference between the two but decide to gatekeep and decide (according to their view) on what is impulsive vs planned one. For the first camp of prolifers, they are the ones that cannot be easily reasoned with as they do not allow any room for reasoning and basically make life the most important value ever, above all else. The other kind of prolifers are the ones who confuse and incorrectly assume that planned CTBs to be impulsive as they only see the moment or instance in which the person attempts or chooses to CTB.
Anyway, without getting too complicated and conflating too many things at once, I will mainly focus on the latter kind of prolifers (as this topic is primarily about impulsive vs planned CTBs), whom are the ones who mistake the planned CTBs to be impulsive CTBs rather than well planned ones. The former camp simply just doesn't respect others' choice to live or die and forces life unconditionally.
With that said, there must be a way for someone to easily see whether someone's CTB is planned or if it is impulsive. A few examples (both classic ones and specific ones) come to mind.
Example Scenarios of Impulsive CTB:
1) S has just broken up with her boyfriend, and in a fit of grief, unable to cope, finds a bridge and jumps off. Her body was found the next day by first responders.
2) C has recently lost his job and savings, he is immediately in a state of panic and thinks that it is over for him, he won't recover from it. He drives into a large body of water in which his body was not found until a few days later (after people who know him filed missing persons report not knowing whether he is dead or alive).
Example Scenarios of Planned CTB:
1) F has suffered greatly throughout her life, from childhood to adulthood and generally unhappy. She has done what she did to try to improve her situation. However, that isn't enough and there isn't anything in the world to that (to her) is worth sticking around. She then starts researching ways to CTB, acquiring said materials, and then tying loose ends. When the time comes and the conditions are right, she mustered all the courage she has and finally CTBs. (For this example I will presume that she has successfully CTB'd and is no longer suffering).
2) R has been miserable his whole life, and recently his health has deteriorated even further, causing him to suffer even more and his quality of life (already poor) has only gotten worse, with little prospect to improve. Even the doctors and experts who know of his conditions gave a dire prognosis that while he isn't terminally ill, his quality of life is not going to improve dramatically but may just deteriorate over the course of years. R decides that this is not a life worth living and he has suffered enough. He makes a plan to CTB and instead of going through the undignified violent way of CTB'ing, he applies to a right to die organization, seeking peace and hoping that he will receive it. (We will assume his request was granted and he is no longer suffering)
3) Additionally there is a famous example in the news of a very successful person who lived to exactly 60 years of age before he CTB'd. He didn't have many issues in life, in fact, he was pretty successful and even in good health for his age. Furthermore, he meticulously planned out his death and executed exactly as he planned.
Those are just some sample scenarios of what I believe to be clear-cut, distinct scenarios of impulsive and planned CTBs. Now in reality and in practice, it is more complicated than that, there are events and causes that precede a person from going down that path, there are times where at an instance it can look to be "impulsive" from an outside observer (who doesn't know all the details or the entire background). While there isn't a hard rule, or exact way of determining what is impulsive or not especially in murky scenarios, I do believe that considering the timeline of events, causes, and reasons a person may have to lead them to their decision are all very important factors when determining whether the person's choice was impulsive vs planned, especially when they know the person.
What are your thoughts on the examples given, or just on the topic in general? Do you believe that the latter camp of prolifers would come around if they knew the difference or no? (I'm not referring to the ones who are steadfast in their view of life is great, the former camp.)
Anyway, without getting too complicated and conflating too many things at once, I will mainly focus on the latter kind of prolifers (as this topic is primarily about impulsive vs planned CTBs), whom are the ones who mistake the planned CTBs to be impulsive CTBs rather than well planned ones. The former camp simply just doesn't respect others' choice to live or die and forces life unconditionally.
With that said, there must be a way for someone to easily see whether someone's CTB is planned or if it is impulsive. A few examples (both classic ones and specific ones) come to mind.
Example Scenarios of Impulsive CTB:
1) S has just broken up with her boyfriend, and in a fit of grief, unable to cope, finds a bridge and jumps off. Her body was found the next day by first responders.
2) C has recently lost his job and savings, he is immediately in a state of panic and thinks that it is over for him, he won't recover from it. He drives into a large body of water in which his body was not found until a few days later (after people who know him filed missing persons report not knowing whether he is dead or alive).
Example Scenarios of Planned CTB:
1) F has suffered greatly throughout her life, from childhood to adulthood and generally unhappy. She has done what she did to try to improve her situation. However, that isn't enough and there isn't anything in the world to that (to her) is worth sticking around. She then starts researching ways to CTB, acquiring said materials, and then tying loose ends. When the time comes and the conditions are right, she mustered all the courage she has and finally CTBs. (For this example I will presume that she has successfully CTB'd and is no longer suffering).
2) R has been miserable his whole life, and recently his health has deteriorated even further, causing him to suffer even more and his quality of life (already poor) has only gotten worse, with little prospect to improve. Even the doctors and experts who know of his conditions gave a dire prognosis that while he isn't terminally ill, his quality of life is not going to improve dramatically but may just deteriorate over the course of years. R decides that this is not a life worth living and he has suffered enough. He makes a plan to CTB and instead of going through the undignified violent way of CTB'ing, he applies to a right to die organization, seeking peace and hoping that he will receive it. (We will assume his request was granted and he is no longer suffering)
3) Additionally there is a famous example in the news of a very successful person who lived to exactly 60 years of age before he CTB'd. He didn't have many issues in life, in fact, he was pretty successful and even in good health for his age. Furthermore, he meticulously planned out his death and executed exactly as he planned.
Those are just some sample scenarios of what I believe to be clear-cut, distinct scenarios of impulsive and planned CTBs. Now in reality and in practice, it is more complicated than that, there are events and causes that precede a person from going down that path, there are times where at an instance it can look to be "impulsive" from an outside observer (who doesn't know all the details or the entire background). While there isn't a hard rule, or exact way of determining what is impulsive or not especially in murky scenarios, I do believe that considering the timeline of events, causes, and reasons a person may have to lead them to their decision are all very important factors when determining whether the person's choice was impulsive vs planned, especially when they know the person.
What are your thoughts on the examples given, or just on the topic in general? Do you believe that the latter camp of prolifers would come around if they knew the difference or no? (I'm not referring to the ones who are steadfast in their view of life is great, the former camp.)