Did you ever want someone obsessed?

[Dandelion's]

I know it's a bad thing to want and it would probably be horrific, but I like the idea of being someones favorite for once, Its the ultimate proof that it's not just pity, that I am not just the one you choose when everyone else isn't there, but someone worth choosing.

I don't know if I am a narcissist for this, I just want someone who would choose me in a room full of people.

 

[ctb_warrior]

Do you really want that? It's possible!!!!
NLP can make that happen

 

[Dandelion's]

Do you really want that? It's possible!!!!
NLP can make that happen

What is NLP?

 

[GodzillasBiggestFan]

i dont think i'd want someone obsessed with me, but i do wish to be someone's first choice, and i dont think its means anything bad to want to be a favorite. i see people around me have best frieneds who they'd always choose first and i wish for that too. i think its natural.

 

[ctb_warrior]

What is NLP?

Neuro linguistic programming.
I can teach you the method. But it's too much of an effort honestly. It does work, one of my contacts learnt that from me and is now married to the girl he loved. He's happily married and has a kid too. They are living a good life

 

[Dandelion's]

Neuro linguistic programming.
I can teach you the method. But it's too much of an effort honestly. It does work, one of my contacts learnt that from me and is now married to the girl he loved. He's happily married and has a kid too. They are living a good life

No sorry that feels too manipulative to be honest, and I am Neuro divergent so I can't talk smoothly at all but thanks.

 

[LastNite]

Neuro linguistic programming.
I can teach you the method. But it's too much of an effort honestly. It does work, one of my contacts learnt that from me and is now married to the girl he loved. He's happily married and has a kid too. They are living a good life

thats just brainwashing?

 

[ctb_warrior]

No sorry that feels too manipulative to be honest, and I am Neuro divergent so I can't talk smoothly at all but thanks.

Umm it's not really manipulative. It's about using your attraction power to the fullest. But i appreciate your stance

thats just brainwashing?

Nooooo
It's about using the power of your mind to attract the one you want.
I definitely don't recommend it and I'm myself single because i don't use this technique because i prefer things to be simple and natural. I know a lot of techniques but i still don't use them because i love if things are natural
I'll tell you an interesting thing, i use an alternative of this to clear every interview i appear in. I have not failed even a single interview in my whole life

 

[lastappleonearth]

Yes, I don't think that this makes you a narcissist

 

[starboy2k]

I want Trevante Rhodes to be obsessed with me.

 

[theboy]

It's normal

 

[Zzzkurt]

I would just be worried about what would happen if the relationship doesn't work and I try leaving. Especially since I had a buddy who had an ex that tried to kill us after he broke up with her. I mean I, nor anyone else in our friend group even knew about her. Because she wouldn't let him go anywhere without threatening him in some way. And the cops didn't do anything until she was actively following us on the highway trying to pit my car if I didn't stop and let him out to go with her.

After she was arrested, we hurried up to gather all his belonging so he could move in with me. She didn't know he lived with me the entire time but she did find out where I worked and then found out where I lived, then kept trying to get me to tell her where he was living. It took months until she was finally arrested again and again and again. Then eventually they put her on an ankle monitor. It was for like 5-7 years but during that time I guess she ended up finding someone else and basically disappeared.

To this day he has a bit of paranoia even though she lives on the complete opposite side of the country. But I'm sure there's a healthy amount of obsession which I think would just be like any relationship.