SipSop
Arcanist
- May 7, 2020
- 483
I was listening to this song:
And I remembered that in my childhood I denied my emotions form various reasons like:
- we were poor so wanting things would have been a burden for my parents,
-my father had monstruous hateful rages withtout any reason or with small provocations,
-my parents were fighting day and night and in order to not amplify the tension I would not complain about the situation and how it was damaging me.
I did this because I was the older brother. And I felt that there were some expectations from me.
Looking back I see that people were considering me a serious person but actually I bottled up the emotions and needs for them and put on a mask in order to not show, what I realise now, that I was actually depressed. Wich I couldn't articulate back then, I didn't knew.
All this at a great cost as I did not developed my emotional spectrum and I realise that I learned to think emotions, not to feel them.
It was like self-defence mechanism in order to not crush and burn.
I now see that I cannot connect like evrybody else, or feel like them.
Emotions guide us to what we like and what we are. But not using them is like denying your own soul.
And I remembered that in my childhood I denied my emotions form various reasons like:
- we were poor so wanting things would have been a burden for my parents,
-my father had monstruous hateful rages withtout any reason or with small provocations,
-my parents were fighting day and night and in order to not amplify the tension I would not complain about the situation and how it was damaging me.
I did this because I was the older brother. And I felt that there were some expectations from me.
Looking back I see that people were considering me a serious person but actually I bottled up the emotions and needs for them and put on a mask in order to not show, what I realise now, that I was actually depressed. Wich I couldn't articulate back then, I didn't knew.
All this at a great cost as I did not developed my emotional spectrum and I realise that I learned to think emotions, not to feel them.
It was like self-defence mechanism in order to not crush and burn.
I now see that I cannot connect like evrybody else, or feel like them.
Emotions guide us to what we like and what we are. But not using them is like denying your own soul.