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Parnate

Student
Dec 16, 2021
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A very close family friend is getting married at the end of this month. our parents have been friends for past twenty five years . We are good friends sort of grew up together .
His marriage is on Tuesday and I was thinking ctbing on the immediate Saturday . But I am feeling bad about it . As it will negatively affect the happiness and the atmosphere at their family. Delaying it further will make me suffer more.
 
todeswunsch

todeswunsch

On overtime in life
Oct 19, 2023
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That's complicated. I got in a similar situation. I was going to CTB earlier this year, but my niece was born in the same day as my b-day. Suiciding in this year would mark them forever. I still don't know how to go about it.
These external events are really complicated indeed. I would end-up delaying it because of the marriage I think
Hope you find out a course of action that brings you most peace.
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
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That is the ever unsolvable issue we all have. Either we are suffering or family/friends/loved ones are suffering. I'm sorry you have to deal with such difficulties.