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yeti
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- Nov 14, 2022
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Sorry for my bad English.
I have to confess. This guilt is killing me.
I lost my dad 4 months ago. I took him to hospital. He was admitted to ICU. He was in severe pain due to urine catherer. When I was near his bed , he pointed at it and did not want it. I asked doctor to remove it.
Doctor declined and said only option is to hand restrained him. So he won't pull the tube or take discharge. I asked my dad if he wants to go home . He said yes , nodded his head. I took discharge.
After discharge while was still in hospital his condition deteriote, I rushed back to icu asking for help. They said he is having heart attack. Tried to revive him but could not.
I am now feeling guilty that I should not discharged him.
Also I think doctor killed him during revive by hitting his chest too hard because they were not happy with my initial decision of discharge.
I have trauma and ptsd. I cant forgive myself . I cant do anything against the hospital also.
I feel guilt , shame , disappointed, angry and in grief. Cant get out of bed or work. I am totally devastated. I feel like I need to ctb as part of my repentance.
I am sorry papa. I am sorry God.
I have to confess. This guilt is killing me.
I lost my dad 4 months ago. I took him to hospital. He was admitted to ICU. He was in severe pain due to urine catherer. When I was near his bed , he pointed at it and did not want it. I asked doctor to remove it.
Doctor declined and said only option is to hand restrained him. So he won't pull the tube or take discharge. I asked my dad if he wants to go home . He said yes , nodded his head. I took discharge.
After discharge while was still in hospital his condition deteriote, I rushed back to icu asking for help. They said he is having heart attack. Tried to revive him but could not.
I am now feeling guilty that I should not discharged him.
Also I think doctor killed him during revive by hitting his chest too hard because they were not happy with my initial decision of discharge.
I have trauma and ptsd. I cant forgive myself . I cant do anything against the hospital also.
I feel guilt , shame , disappointed, angry and in grief. Cant get out of bed or work. I am totally devastated. I feel like I need to ctb as part of my repentance.
I am sorry papa. I am sorry God.