Discussion Christmas gifts for people

[shamblingshaggoth]

Kinda silly thought but is anyone else going to get Xmas gifts for anyone? I am pb and just told the people it was for not to open it until Xmas. That way if I ctb before then they still have a gift. I'm not sure now if that's something that would help them years from now or if it would just bring further heartache.
Thoughts?

 

[just dave]

My best friend CTB 13 years ago on New Years Day. For Christmas that year he gave me a board game called Cranium. I still haven't opened the game because the thought hurts that we were meant to play it together with our spouses.
If he had given me nothing, I think I'd feel better about it.

 

[shamblingshaggoth]

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and another perspective to think about. I am sorry for the pain you face and hope you are surrounded by lived ones come the holidays this year

 

[asian.neet]

Kinda silly thought but is anyone else going to get Xmas gifts for anyone? I am pb and just told the people it was for not to open it until Xmas. That way if I ctb before then they still have a gift. I'm not sure now if that's something that would help them years from now or if it would just bring further heartache.
Thoughts?

i got headphones for christmas, but id rather have SN more than anything else

 

[shamblingshaggoth]

i got headphones for christmas, but id rather have SN more than anything else

It seems super difficult to find a legitimate source and even more difficult to procure without a guide in certain foreign countries. And then there's smuggling it back to your home country

 

[outrider567]

Kinda silly thought but is anyone else going to get Xmas gifts for anyone? I am pb and just told the people it was for not to open it until Xmas. That way if I ctb before then they still have a gift. I'm not sure now if that's something that would help them years from now or if it would just bring further heartache.
Thoughts?

No, not getting any Christmas gifts for anyone, and not sending any Christmas cards to anyone--Since Patti died, there's little point