Venting Can't get over my cat's death

[elmo]

It hurt like crazy. She died because it was all my fault that I didn't look earlier when she was missing.

 

[NordNihilist]

Doesn't sound like you neglected her or anything. Ultimately cats are very individualistic. No need to feel too guilty about it I think. Mourn your loss and grieve - whatever it takes.

 

[piupianissimo]

So sorry for your loss. Not your fault...please don't blame yourself

 

[LMLN]

Please dont blame yourself. I know that's easier said than done.

My sweet dog that I loved so much died earlier this year. I miss him so much and he died alone missing me. :( I was not able to go to him when he needed me.

I'm sorry about how bad you feel and the grief you must feel. But it sounds like you loved your cat and would never purposely hurt it. ❤❤❤

 

[peacetoall]

It hurt like crazy. She died because it was all my fault that I didn't look earlier when she was missing.

I understand how bad it hurts, I have been there. Don't be hard on yourself. You loved and truly cared for your cat. Take comfort in that. Wishing you peace

 

[Moonicide]

The fact that you're hurting means you cared and loved for your pet so much. It's not your fault, love.
I know right now it feels like it, but so many people here are telling you otherwise.
I've lost my pets to unfortunate circumstances as well... It's not something you forget. There will always be that ache.
We're here for you.

 

[elmo]

Doesn't sound like you neglected her or anything. Ultimately cats are very individualistic. No need to feel too guilty about it I think. Mourn your loss and grieve - whatever it takes.

She didn't come home one night and it was raining. Usually, she comes home before night. It hurt coz I was just sleeping and at my room all day.