Can't even be suicidal about being a woman on a suicide forum

[user938838383335]

I posted that female role makes me suicidal and people strated defending face fucking on here as if it isn't violent. Why cant we be suicidal on here? It's normies who should be banned from here and not us...

 

[parentportaldotnet]

that's stupid, genuinely fucking dumb. you are entitled to your feelings.

 

[Jisatsu]

People are fucking dumb ,i'm sorry you've been mistreated.

 

[quietwoods]

that's stupid, genuinely fucking dumb. you are entitled to your feelings.

People are fuvking dumb ,i'm sorry you've been mistreated.

OP, in my opinion, is being a bit disingenuous. I was on the thread mostly as a neutral third party. Topics about sex seem to really rile up the community.

From my observations, no one was "defending face fucking", but pushing back against assertions by OP that no one can enjoy certain sexual actions.

The thread initially started as a venting post but devolved into an argument and was locked.

The thread in question in case you or others wish to come to your own conclusions:

Female role in sex makes me suicidal as a woman

I even asked normies if acts like face fucking are common in normal relationships and they answered yes I can't take it I can't stand being a woman it's so humiliating.

sanctioned-suicide.net

 

[Dot]

Sexul actvties wll alwys rnge frm gentl t/ mre rough - = jst depnds on wht ppl lke

Slf undrstnd OP feelng tht givn th/ natre of anatmy = oftn th/ womn wh/ wll b on 'recievng' end of sx whch cn fl dmneang & humli8tng in heteosexul contxt - & readng abt thngs lke fce-fuckng cn b dstressng

Bt thre r sme 'violnt' thngs whch r mre commn in porngrphy & genrlly dignty = nt genrlly considrd thre

Slf undrstnd tht OP fls vulnrble whn c-ing sme methds tht happn bt jst remmbr tht mn r also on recivng end of BDSM/dominatrx whch cn b cnsidrd violnt & thn thre = LGBTQ+ sx whch opns up evn mre catgries

Womn r oftn demeand in sexul spces in tht rgard - bt also trns ppl r fetishisd etc - s/ imo = importnt t/ fnd sexul parntrs wh/ r respctfl & considr8 & wll kp ur dignty intact & nt pressre u in2 Ncountrs whch d/ nt fl comfrtble

 

[EvisceratedJester]

You made a post complaining about face-fucking, others responded by pointing out that there isn't anything inherently wrong with that so long as both partners consent to it and enjoy it, to which you replied by claiming that it's violent and started calling other people names and whining about everyone on here being "normies". You were completely unwilling to have any kind of meaningful discussion on the topic. This has nothing to do with you being suicidal about being a woman and instead had everything to do with you being unable to listen to others and handle disagreements. I'm a woman and even I didn't agree with you. You called me a "tyrant" just because I didn't agree with your claims.

Let's cut the victim-complex crap already. You cannot go onto any forum and expect people to blindly agree with you. People will disagree with you and nothing is wrong with that. You handled the situation poorly by not listening to anyone and instead just reiterating "it's violent" and name-calling. Nobody came after you for feeling suicidal, they were just expressing disagreement with your claims that face-fucking is inherently violent and bad.

 

[CatLvr]

I didn't see anyone defending face fucking, but you ARE entitled to your feelings. I am truly sorry you feel some kinda way, though. I know what it feels like to think you are invisible, or worse, that people are dismissing you. That was not my intent.

 

[Unicron]

I'm sorry you feel you've been attacked, nobody should feel that. I stayed out of the conversation because I could see the way it was going.

Just try and remember this is a forum where a lot of mentally and emotionally damaged people congregate, so there are going to be flare ups from time to time.

I hope you can get over it.

 

[user938838383335]

Oh

You made a post complaining about face-fucking, others responded by pointing out that there isn't anything inherently wrong with that so long as both partners consent to it and enjoy it, to which you replied by claiming that it's violent and started calling other people names and whining about everyone on here being "normies". You were completely unwilling to have any kind of meaningful discussion on the topic. This has nothing to do with you being suicidal about being a woman and instead had everything to do with you being unable to listen to others and handle disagreements. I'm a woman and even I didn't agree with you. You called me a "tyrant" just because I didn't agree with your claims.

Let's cut the victim-complex crap already. You cannot go onto any forum and expect people to blindly agree with you. People will disagree with you and nothing is wrong with that. You handled the situation poorly by not listening to anyone and instead just reiterating "it's violent" and name-calling. Nobody came after you for feeling suicidal, they were just expressing disagreement with your claims that face-fucking is inherently violent and bad.

Oh you're here again, the face fucking defender you should have some shame considering you're a woman. This is a suicide forum and I can be suicidal about face fucking as much as I want. Idgaf ab the words CoNsEnSuAL aDuLtS

 

[Light_]

i don't know what face fucking even is, but it's obviously something causing you distress personally and idk why anyone would try to disregard that if they did even if they don't agree. There's only people suffering here. but categorizing people into "us" and "them" or labels like "normie" are divisive and alienating too. we are all generally human. pathology may identify some people and their actions, but we are all the same at our most basic core.

 

[rainwillneverstop]

Sorry but original thread was locked for a reason, but just wanted to translate dots reply before locking this one.
It'll go south, and it's already on the way to.

Sexul actvties wll alwys rnge frm gentl t/ mre rough - = jst depnds on wht ppl lke

Slf undrstnd OP feelng tht givn th/ natre of anatmy = oftn th/ womn wh/ wll b on 'recievng' end of sx whch cn fl dmneang & humli8tng in heteosexul contxt - & readng abt thngs lke fce-fuckng cn b dstressng

Bt thre r sme 'violnt' thngs whch r mre commn in porngrphy & genrlly dignty = nt genrlly considrd thre

Slf undrstnd tht OP fls vulnrble whn c-ing sme methds tht happn bt jst remmbr tht mn r also on recivng end of BDSM/dominatrx whch cn b cnsidrd violnt & thn thre = LGBTQ+ sx whch opns up evn mre catgries

Womn r oftn demeand in sexul spces in tht rgard - bt also trns ppl r fetishisd etc - s/ imo = importnt t/ fnd sexul parntrs wh/ r respctfl & considr8 & wll kp ur dignty intact & nt pressre u in2 Ncountrs whch d/ nt fl comfrtble

Translation:
Sexual activities will always range from gentle to more rough - it just depends on what people like.

I understand OP feeling that given the nature of anatomy, its often the women who will be on the 'receiving' end of sex, which can feel demeaning and humiliating in heterosexual context. And reading about things like face fucking can be distressing.

But there are some 'violent' things which are more common in pornography and generally dignity is not generally considered there.

I understand that OP feels vulnerable when seeing some methods that happen but just remember that men are also on receiving end of BDSM/dominatrix which can be considered violent. And then there is LGBTQ+ sex which opens up even more categories.

Women are often demeaned in sexual spaces in that regard, but also trans people are fetishized etc. So imo it's important to find sexual partners which are respectful and considerate and will keep your dignity intact, and not pressure you into encounters which do not feel comfortable.