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JipJopMop
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- Mar 6, 2021
- 96
I HATE HATE HATE on dating apps or when meeting some one, one of the first questions is what do you do for a living.
It sucks when you don't work to be asked that and if I say I'm not working I usually get loads of questions or people trying to force me to work and I sure as heck don't need to explain my physical and mental health issues to a complete stranger.
If it is some one who is insignificant to my life, like a taxi driver or some one I kiss on a night out then sometimes I will pretend I have a job but I don't like lying really.
Anyway it is definitely possible to have sex as a NEET, I have had sex as a NEET and have had more offers that I turned down.
Relationships have been harder to find though but I know other NEETs that are in relationships.
Honestly find a community of NEETs and then find people to date there.
My friend owns a bar that is largely frequented by NEETs so I met lots of NEET friends there and have had some intimate relations from there.
It sucks when you don't work to be asked that and if I say I'm not working I usually get loads of questions or people trying to force me to work and I sure as heck don't need to explain my physical and mental health issues to a complete stranger.
If it is some one who is insignificant to my life, like a taxi driver or some one I kiss on a night out then sometimes I will pretend I have a job but I don't like lying really.
Anyway it is definitely possible to have sex as a NEET, I have had sex as a NEET and have had more offers that I turned down.
Relationships have been harder to find though but I know other NEETs that are in relationships.
Honestly find a community of NEETs and then find people to date there.
My friend owns a bar that is largely frequented by NEETs so I met lots of NEET friends there and have had some intimate relations from there.