Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
I feel it's been a kind of barrier for me. Two women who were older than me wrote me off after they asked me what I do.
aeon
XIII
- Dec 6, 2020
- 1,358
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
Well you need to find the right person that's okay with being someone who's not employed because then they will have to support 2 ppl. But theres people like that out there so yes but it's not gonna be easy. It's not easy to find the right person anyway
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
They won't see it if they find you're a neet
I have my own money. It's not a lot but I manage. I don't need anyone to support me.
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
Oh well then why would it matter? If you have money while being a neet then that's my dream life lol.
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
Dating or going out often would use up all my money really quick
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
You don't always have to buy stuff and spend money when you go out tho
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
TheNorthernSilence
Arcanist
- Nov 13, 2018
- 430
Because your social status is a big thing for some.
Depends what they are looking for. If they want a long term partner they will likely care what you do do for a living. If they just want a hook up then they likely won't care.
Puffinz
Member
- Dec 7, 2020
- 94
Relationships would be hard because you can't lie about anything but I'm sure you could have sex if you just make up some backstory about having a job. Seems kind-of manipulative though and if you're gonna do it I would make sure the other person only wants sex too and not something more.
NightmareTour
Specialist
- May 13, 2020
- 398
I wouldn't call myself attractive, but I did it. I only seem to attract people who find my attachment issues/people pleaser complex useful and/or genuinely enjoy causing me suffering, though. Narccists love preying upon people like us. Not healthy.
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
A friend said I should just look for sex given my situation. I don't know how to approach women in that way.
Adopt a new name...use it as your punchline...
"Hi my name is Buck, and I like to fuck"
Works 60% of the time....all the time.
"Hi my name is Buck, and I like to fuck"
Works 60% of the time....all the time.
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
I figured that but I can't tell without being too blunt what women are looking for. Most seem to want a relationship when I show interest
How do they discover your issues?
Normally I would say bars, but covid has messed that up. Maybe dating apps if you're honest about desires and intentions?
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
I just joined a new one. I used to do better on them a few years ago. Nothing is different. I look the same
Covid might make it harder. I wouldn't hook up for intimate encounters during a pandemic.
NightmareTour
Specialist
- May 13, 2020
- 398
Some seem to genuinely not seek it out on purpose but pick up on "vulnerable" social cues subconsciously. The worst ones have done it a lot of times before and know exactly what they're looking for.
I'm not saying it's impossible to have a healthy relationship in this kind of situation, but it seems very difficult. Especially if you're the kind of person who is looking for a relationship to try to improve your mental state. (Understandable, I did it myself, but a very bad idea.) Personally I don't think I'll try again.
Arrow
Rewrite
- May 1, 2020
- 769
if you're very attractive then yeah you could get sex, but i think its unlikely someone would commit to a long term relationship with a NEET
Only group of people that would benefit a NEET is a sugarmomma. But those are rare.
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
I mean if the person can support themselves and won't constantly talk about that they're neet and stuff then I'd be with a neet person. It depends on personality and if you have similarities that you can talk about and stuff
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
How many bad ones did you get involved with? I tend to go for women who are shy and seem nice and sweet.
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
There's sites for sugar mommies and daddies tho
id do it if it wasn't for exchange of sexual favors
Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
I support myself through disability. I've had two nurses ask me what I do at doctor visits. When I've told them, they just walked away and wouldn't look at me :/
Nymph
he/him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 2,565
Did they answer at least? They should answer but you can't expect much from ppl who are working and doing their job. It's not a time to date ppl
Yes, money does play a big role, particularly in some demographics. Confidence is a major, major factor in any age group. Confidence can make up for quite a bit...
Sherri
Archangel
- Sep 28, 2020
- 13,794
Makes me sad that we have to go online to look for that person. I gave up dating apps. I felt like a car on display for sale. Been on a few dates through dating apps, either the person was not as interesting as it was online, or didn't look at all like the picture on the app. Not the type of one night stands anymore.
Yes you can. Actually there are other NEETs out there and some are attractive females, i had some success /w this. I think as childfree movement becomes more mainstream a lot of the financial pressure on women to seek out high paid males is gonna drop. Cultural stigma around low paid males /NEET has declined over my lifetime as the economy is continually gutted and hollowed out
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