best 8 decisions of my adult life

[Crazy4u]

I will keep it short to avoid boring readers but feel free to ask me about anything


before leaving my parents' place 18-24:

1. Working on speech therapy to correct pronunciation of some letters
2. Getting serious about driving and car ownership
3. Completing my bachelor's degree and studying a business major

after leaving my parents' place & before coming to the US 24-28:

4. Putting up with a boring but stable job to help me get out and live alone
5. Removing hijab and avoiding religious events and people

after coming to the US:

6. Putting efforts into finding and keeping jobs in a less expensive state
7. Spending money on shopping, experiences, and travel
8. Getting serious about suicide planning and preparation



What about you? what are your best decisions?

 

[FuneralCry]

It sounds like you have done a lot in your life. I am not good at making decisions, I do not want to make any decisions, all I want is to not exist. Life is so pointless and unnecessary. I wish you the best.

 

[Sherri]

I will keep it short to avoid boring readers but feel free to ask me about anything


before leaving my parents' place 18-24:

1. Working on speech therapy to correct pronunciation of some letters
2. Getting serious about driving and car ownership
3. Completing my bachelor's degree and studying a business major

after leaving my parents' place & before coming to the US 24-28:

4. Putting up with a boring but stable job to help me get out and live alone
5. Removing hijab and avoiding religious events and people

after coming to the US:

6. Putting efforts into finding and keeping jobs in a less expensive state
7. Spending money on shopping, experiences, and travel
8. Getting serious about suicide planning and preparation



What about you? what are your best decisions?

Just the fact of removing the hijab is a big step. All the best in your American Dream

 

[Oblivion Access]

Going vegan, only regret not doing it earlier.
Avoiding forming new relationships because I will ctb sooner or later, plus my friendships tend to have a shelf life of ~1 year tops and it's painful to (yet again, never gets old) lose people to one's toxicity.
DIY estradiol therapy, again, only regret is not doing it earlier.
Quitting weed, it ruined my already poor executive function, confidence and attention span.
Realising religion was a sham and not playing along when I was ~5 years old. I peeked then, I think

 

[Sherri]

Quitting smoking
leaving my ex
buying my house
meeting ss
having a brand new car
quit alcohol
Sinning up to a new profit organisation for the needy and the ones who need a bit of attention
Having my dream job

 

[Crazy4u]

Going vegan, only regret not doing it earlier.
Avoiding forming new relationships because I will ctb sooner or later, plus my friendships tend to have a shelf life of ~1 year tops and it's painful to (yet again, never gets old) lose people to one's toxicity.
DIY estradiol therapy, again, only regret is not doing it earlier.
Quitting weed, it ruined my already poor executive function, confidence and attention span.
Realising religion was a sham and not playing along when I was ~5 years old. I peeked then, I think

great decisions! I bet quitting weed was not easy but you made it!

Quitting smoking
leaving my ex
buying my house
meeting ss
having a brand new car
quit alcohol
Sinning up to a new profit organisation for the needy and the ones who need a bit of attention
Having my dream job

wow impressive list! buying a house is one of my dreams but I don't think I will ever do it. You've done a lot of things! I'm glad to meet you and other members on ss

It sounds like you have done a lot in your life. I am not good at making decisions, I do not want to make any decisions, all I want is to not exist. Life is so pointless and unnecessary. I wish you the best.

sometimes I feel my life is so empty. I haven't done enough in life but I tried. I wish you the best too

my best decision in life is my choice to end it by ctb of course.
besides this, my best decision was to quit education, leave the fucked up society and become a NEET for the rest of my days

I wish there was a way to live on a farm with animals and leave everything behind. Society sucks!

 

[wearingmyheart]

none at all

 

[Willy Wonka]

none at all

same here. but look ... they want to ctb as well

 

[demuic]

It seems like any good decision I make is only the reversal of a bad decision.

 

[Crazy4u]

It seems like any good decision I make is only the reversal of a bad decision.

That is actually very good! It is not easy to reverse bad decisions

 

[Silenos]

What about you? what are your best decisions?

Well I'm not going to give you 8, but the one decision I made that I had never doubted nor regretted for a second was to get a vasectomy.

 

[Crazy4u]

Well I'm not going to give you 8, but the one decision I made that I had never doubted nor regretted for a second was to get a vasectomy.

Very brave decision!

 

[Silenos]

Very brave decision!

Thanks? But to be honest I don't feel that way about it. To me it was a practical decision that I could only stand to benefit from. No courage required.